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My Recent Trip to a Local Mosque

2012-02-02T12:34:00.000-06:00

I recently (several weeks ago) took a small-guided tour to visit major Islamic sites in Richmond. The local Muslim population is growing as it is across the nation. The excursion took me to the Islamic Center of Virginia (ICVA) in time for a Friday service. Here's a brief glimpse from my perspective of the experience.

Turning onto the ICVA property, you quickly notice several uniformed officers. You wonder, but soon realize their presence is primarily for traffic control. The parking lot is nearly full as we are directed by the aid of a uniformed officer to a grassy space. After parking the vehicle, our party of three made our way to a building entrance where we saw people entering and exiting. Before entering the service, I sat down to remove my shoes and place them in an available space among hundreds of shoes shelved and placed on the floor. I entered the service. The room was packed with hundreds of men sitting on the floor. The women were located in another part of the facility. Men and women worship separately. A few chairs line the wall in the back – primarily for non-Muslims. I made my way toward the back to sit. People are still pouring into the full room.

Monzer Taleb was the guest speaker. He was in town for a “motivational” speaking event that evening. He was articulate, well spoken, and convincing. His message focused on the need to help orphans. Muslims for Humanity was his cause and their effort to care for orphans in Africa. He identified well with his audience using current illustrations and teaching from the Qur'an. I had hoped to both see and listen to the Imam. He is very much the American face of Islam in the region. The audience in the service was attentive and participatory when appropriate. The ethnic composition of the room was interesting. I was one of less than six white faces. The bulk of others present would identify with either Middle Eastern or North African heritage. If this is a typical composite of Islam in Richmond, Islam’s local growth would be primarily migrant rather than convert or proselytized growth. My only “awkward” moment was the prayer time or Muslim’s worship. During the reciting of prayers, I thought to myself, "What should I pray?" The god is Islam is clearly not the God of Christianity. So how do you pray as everyone in the room is praying to something else? Is this how the prophets of old felt as the masses entreated the gods of other nations? This is definitely a topic for another post.

At the conclusion of the service, I made my way toward the exit - slowly moving with the crowd. I wasn't in any particular hurry to leave, but found it interesting that I was never engaged in conversation. While I didn't try to initiate a conversation nor did I give off the appearance of being anti-social. People were obviously talking to one another. I was definitely the odd man out.

The story takes an interesting twist after returning home. Interested in learning more about the speaker, I did a simple search for Monzer Taleb including several spelling variations. My first reaction, I didn’t necessarily like what I found – definitely put me ill at ease. Monzer Taleb is an Islamic scholar and motivational speaker. He is also a panel discussion participant on topics such as Sharia law. Over the past couple of years, I’ve made connections with Muslims – both practicing and former. For clarification, I contacted a number of sources (including ICVA) and an indirect contact to Monzer Taleb in an attempt to verify his story and past. My question, “Is this the Monzer Taleb with ties to Hamas?” Hamas is an organization with proven ties to terrorism and a distinct hatred for Israel. To date, my inquiries have basically gone ignored. A simple question continues to go unanswered. Choosing to ignore an inquiry of this sort only creates greater suspicion. If this man is one and the same, I have some grave concerns that a voice of hatred, annihilation, and terrorism moves in and out of our community unnoticed. Additionally, it creates a cloud of suspicion regarding Muslim activity in the Richmond area. I certainly hope this is not the case.

The Consequence of Attitude

2012-01-23T09:50:00.000-06:00

Attitude is contagious! Want a great (an humorous) illustration? Try this recent DirectTV commercial. Now don’t get offended. I’m not poking fun at cultural differences or preferences. I just think this is a good example of how attitude is caught by those around us and ultimately influences personal choice. While extreme in example, you’ll get the picture. Since we’ve been talking about attitude on Sundays, I think this is right in line with the discussion.

If God is For Us...

2012-01-18T12:20:00.000-06:00

You have to love the song, “Our God.” Composed by Matt Redman, Chris Tomlin, Jesse Reeves, and Jonas Myrin, the lyrics are based in part on Romans 8:31 and serve as an awesome reminder and testimony to our incredible God. If God is for us, who can be against us?

An Old Wound

2012-01-17T07:06:00.000-06:00

I am fortunate and blessed. I’ve both known and live in God’s peculiar protection. While difficult to understand, this protection is amazing. I’m incredibly grateful for this care. God kept me from things and delivered me out of things. I continue to this day residing in this powerful protection. Recently, I was engaged in a couple of conversations which opened up an old forgotten but familiar wound. As a leader, I have pretty thick skin - a prerequisite for ministry. But in this particular situation, I was frequently and intentionally injured by another. I never understood why, just accepted it. I attempted to let it roll off my back, tried to dismissed it, and just chose not to think about it. Most never even knew about the incidents as I intentionally didn’t talk about the events. As I look back, I’m not entirely sure that was healthy, but none the less it’s how I dealt with it.

In the couple of recent conversations, the sense the anguish, pain, and frustration that I once knew began to resurface. I didn’t expect that at all! While I thought the effects were long gone, this old wound bled again. It’s real, it hurts, and personally I don’t like it - the past or resurfaced pain. I had some decisions to make.

1. I chose forgiveness even though no one ever apologized. My ability to forgive is not apology dependent. I chose to forgive, remember (yes), and release the offender from the liability of their actions and words. I’m not sure this person will ever really understand the depth or implication of their actions. I choose not to hold the individual accountable. It’s not about forgetting, just forgiving. I don’t keep a score.

2. I chose care. I asked God for the ability to see the other person through eyes of compassion. Instead of wishing less than good, I choose to see them through eyes of care and concern. I see the insecurities, hurts, and needs of the offender. I chose compassion. This person is a victim in as much as they’ve learned somewhere along the way that injurious behavior is acceptable and appropriate.

3. I chose surrender. I chose to surrender the pain, the past, and the person to God. I can’t change the past, but I can give Him the future. I choose to surrender a future I’m unable to create, influence, and control. It’s God’s future and I’ll trust Him in it. I reside myself to God’s leadership and intervention.

4. I chose freedom. I chose not to be held captive or controlled by past events. The past binds; I choose to live a future in freedom. I choose not to go there again. I choose not to allow another person’s actions or words to control my feelings or thoughts - other than Christ.

Why do I share this? Because we all get injured in life. This is real faith and real life. Life and faith will intersect in your neighborhood. You may have been injured and will never hear an apology. You must do something with the thoughts and feelings. Even if you’ve forgotten them, they’ll resurface from time to time. The apology isn’t essential for the injured in order to grow and heal. Are you having a difficult time forgiving? Thought you already forgave? Do you need to remind yourself of the forgiveness you previously extended? Challenged by an old wound resurfacing? Something yet to be dealt with? Choose to forgive (again in some cases), care, surrender, and take hold of freedom. It all begins with a decision.

For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions. Matthew 6:14-15

This Election Stuff Has to Change

2012-01-12T21:13:00.000-06:00

Politics - Presidential Elections - Campaigns - It’s all out of whack. I stumbled upon the USA Today article reporting the DNC and Obama campaign have amassed a $240 million dollar stockpile to fuel his re-election campaign. Did you catch that - $240 million dollars! Really?!? We live in a nation with a damaged credit score because of too much debt. Today our elected leaders are preparing to raise the debt ceiling again - another example of financial malfeasance. In our nation of opportunity, one-in-four children will go to bed hungry tonight. Families will sleep in a space unpowered by electricity or without oil to fuel the furnace. Lenders repossessed over 65,000 properties alone in October 2011. Unemployment rates and jobless benefit claims are staggering. Approximately 50,000 people annually are trafficked into or transited through America as slaves (sex, domestics, garment, and agricultural). As many as 2.8 million children live on the streets in America. While your reading this post, homeless shelters are turning away clients for a bed tonight - too many needs and not enough space. I can go on and on regarding the social injustice and societal ills facing our nation.

I’m ashamed we can gather stockpiles of cash to play politics - making mockery of real America - and we can’t learn to control our spending or even begin the process of investing in people. Has the power hunger elitist elected lost all sense of sanity and morality? Will someone please check the magnet on this country’s moral compass? If I were packing meals for the hungry with that money, I could feed nearly a billion people. We could shelter thousands and thousands. We could create private sector jobs initiatives to put America back to work. We could truly make America a better place to live by making a difference. But instead, others play politics as this nation slithers ever so close to the brink of collapse - both morally and financially.

To be fair, I don’t know what the GOP or its candidates have raised. I can only assume its total dollar figure is similarly offensive. In the last presidential election, between the front runner candidates more than a billion dollars was raised and spent. In all actuality, the DNC and Obama campaign out raised and spent the GOP and McCain camp more than two-to-one. Something is definitely wrong here - fundamentally, ethically, and morally. We need a return to sanity, to civility, to social consciousness, and to social responsibility. It’s irresponsible for our candidates to frivolously exhaust enormous resources while the nation’s needs go unaddressed and unmet. Will we ever have election and financing reform? Will we ever have a candidate who’ll cry foul and awaken a true moral consciousness in our nation? I can only hope!

Here’s my suggestion: I say in the future let’s give every qualified candidate $1000, a Flip camcorder, an iPhone with unlimited data and texting, a YouTube account, Facebook account, free blog space, and a Twitter account. Now, may the best man or woman win! Just a thought!

3 Questions for Every Leader

2012-01-11T20:33:00.000-06:00

Leaders ask questions. Every leader should ask three questions on a regular basis. What are these three questions?

1. When am I dreaming?Effective leaders spend time dreaming, creatively thinking, and visioning. Schedule it! If you don’t, you won’t dream. Get away from familiarity - walk out of the office into a space where you can think and dream. Talk to God, but most of all listen. Find a space, place, and time where you can see, hear, and dream God’s vision. Dare to think, dream, and believe bigger things. Make sure it is bigger than you. Are you dreaming a dream?

2. How am I communicating? If you want people to follow with you, you have to share the destination. Visions, dreams, and creative ideas aren’t understood through osmosis. You have to share it - speak it, write about it, and paint great pictures. Every leader has a dream, but it’ll never become reality unless it is shared and acted upon. Allow time for others to process, formulate, and collaborate the details of the dream. Create moments for buy in and ownership. Are you communicating a vision?

3. What am I learning?Leaders are life long learners. Every effective leader I know is a student. They read, listen, observe, memorize, and study. Learning should never cease for the leader. Stale leaders teach a passionless truth. What are you reading? What are you studying? Who are you listening to or following? Keep learning!

Ask yourself these questions on a regular basis. Keep on the leader track. Leaders are dreamers. Leaders are communicators. Leaders are learners.

Christianity: Peddling or Promoting

2012-01-05T22:40:00.000-06:00

Sometimes I struggle with Christianity’s commercialism. We’re slick, self-promoted, and marketed. So what’s the difference between peddling the message and promoting the message? Do we package faith for a profit? I understand marketing. I’m a published author with a book on Amazon and bookstore shelves. I’ve got a dog in the fight and yet it’s a real struggle. I watch and I wonder at the difference between promoting and peddling. The message needs to get out, but not at the price of bogo offers or a free gift with any donation (tax deductible gift). Send us money and we’ll share this wisdom. I realize people have to make a living - bills have to be paid. But, the gospel is free - isn’t it? It’s a gift. We need to know the difference between promoting it or peddling it. Peddlers are a definite turnoff. Are we prophets or profits?

Here’s the case. I was driving down the road in my wife’s Jeep and tuned to a couple of Christian stations. Rarely do I ever listen to the radio, but tonight I listened to some programming. I think it’s a control thing as I like to choose what I listen to rather than have someone else randomly decide for me. I listened to a little bit of music and then switched to another station. I caught the tail end of a teaching ministry’s program - sales and gimmicks. The message was fairly typical. Keep this program on the air tomorrow by giving today. If we receive your gift today, we’ll send you an autograph copy of the latest book. It’s yours today for a donation of any size. Really? I missed the teaching, but caught the timeshare sales pitch on the infomercial. I thought to myself, there’s got to be a better way. I was unsettled; this was peddling and not promoting in my opinion. Where do you draw the line? What's the difference?

Happy New Year!

2011-12-31T19:28:00.002-06:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR! A new year is a fresh opportunity. It's a chance to start again. It's like a round of golf with friends - you're grateful for the mulligan. A New Year is an opportunity to act on the do-over. Where will you begin? What is your first step?

When Comedy Loses Its Laugh... on Bill Maher and Tim Tebow

2011-12-29T09:41:00.000-06:00

Here is another example of our culture’s warped sense of political correctness: be a respecter of all others except those of the Christian faith. Bill Maher’s sent his offensive tweet last weekend after Denver’s dismal performance, “Wow, Jesus just f---- #TimTebow bad! And on Xmas Eve! Somewhere in hell Satan is tebowing, saying to Hitler, “Hey, Buffalo’s killing them.” As a Christian, I’m repulsed - beyond offended by the tweet. I’m further disenchanted with Fox News’ Andy Levy who dismissed the remark as Maher’s job, “He’s a comedian, who cares!” That’s a ridiculous pass!

Remember Rick Sanchez? CNN fired him because he referred to Jon Stewart as a bigot and referenced Comedy Central among other networks as run by Jews. Remember Juan Williams? He was fired from NPR after commenting about people wearing Muslim apparel on airplanes made him nervous or worried. Isn’t is amazing how others lost their employment for lesser offensive remarks. It’s one thing to utter an opinion that’s unpopular, it’s a whole other thing to intentionally degrade, injure, or make incredibly offensive statements with the purpose to inflict harm.

While I certainly don’t dismiss Bill Maher’s actions, I’m not sure he has the capacity to understand the repulsive nature of his statement. As an irreligious commentator, Maher displays contempt for Christians (and the Christian faith) which is evidenced by numerous previous remarks and spots. Here’s the sting Bill - to reference my Lord in a degrading, foul, and demeaning fashion is injurious, blasphemous, and ought not happen. I don’t advocate unemployment for Maher, but he should be censored and the network should yank his chain. I believe Maher should make a sincere public apology to both Tim Tebow and other Christ followers both on Twitter and before a camera. There should be consequences for bad behavior especially for purposefully offensive, repulsive, demeaning, and injurious remarks. Just because you’re a pseudo comedian doesn’t give you permission. Comedy is supposedly funny. This incident is far from humorous - it’s sad.

So What's the Real Reason for a Southern Baptist Convention Name Change?

2011-12-28T19:10:00.000-06:00

Sometime after February we should have more concrete information pertaining to a proposed name change for the Southern Baptist Convention. I’m a Southern Baptist by identification and choice - even a pastor of a Southern Baptist Church. I really don’t have a preference (at this point) one way or another either for keeping or for changing the name. There’s value in both positions. New name supporters say they want to remove any “barriers” in reaching people for Christ. I’d really like to learn of the barriers they’ve identified and hope committee members will be forthcoming with both rationale and reasons. Is it a question of relevance? Is it that we’ve behaved badly (at times) over the decades? Is it because of a less than stellar reputation with outsiders? There’s a lot of stuff you can’t sweep under the carpet with just a new name - we really need heart change. You don’t change organizational culture, direction, or perception (bigger than reality) without implementing intentional and strategic shift. What’s at the core? What’s at the heart? Whitewashing an exterior does little for a deteriorating interior. If there is to be genuine change it must begin with significant heart change. I just want to make sure we’re as concerned about being the church as we are about the tag/label on the stationary and building. Just a thought.

On Lowe's, FFA, MPAC, and the All-American Muslim

2011-12-20T16:06:00.001-06:00

I want to shop at Lowe’s! With all the recent (negative) publicity and threat of a boycott, the rebel in me wants to buy just in spite (wrong attitude I know). If you haven’t heard already, Lowe’s Home Improvement pulled advertising from TLC’s All-American Muslim reality show. Polarizing organizations on both sides of the debate are fuming. The Florida Family Association takes credit for the retailer’s advertising yank. Pro-Islamic organizations such as the Muslim Public Affairs Council are crying foul as they yell, “Boycott Lowe’s!” The MPAC is actually threatening legal action. Even more crazy - California Senator Ted Lieu informed the Associated Press that he is considering legislative action if Lowe's doesn't apologize to Muslims and reinstate its advertising with All-American Muslim. Makes me wonder, “Where’s my Senator when I get offended?” Where’s Ted Lieu when California Christians are offended? This whole deal is way over the top! Some folks here ought to sit in time out!

Boycotts do not work! Historically these benign efforts do nothing but fuel a retailer’s receipts. It’s actually great advertising since people seem to love controversy. Regardless of whether it’s termed good or bad press; it’s all press. Lowe’s should actually cut a check to MPAC and FFA for an outstanding marketing scheme. Additionally, advertising dollars are the sole responsibility of the retailer. Lowe’s alone is responsible on how their advertising budgets are spent. No state or national government has the right to dictate advertising campaigns or venues!

To be totally upfront, the All-American Muslim reality show is poor entertainment. I’ve watched an episode. I found the context to be less than authentic. The characters in the reality show are Muslim by culture, not by faith - it’s an identity tag. What I did find offensive in the episode I previewed was the pressure placed on a Catholic fiancé to convert to Islam in order to be accepted by his nominally Muslim future family - a classic example of proselytizing and coercion.

I’d liken the All-American Muslim reality show to an imaginary All-American Christian reality show. The cast would be made up of people who would claim to be Christian and yet rarely attend church - noticeably absent from any meaningful Christian community. Maybe they went to church at some point or attend Church at Christmas and Easter - an attendance based on tradition rather than conviction. The real problem here - there’s no demonstrated evidence of conversion, change, or commitment in terms of faith or in the following of Jesus Christ. These so called All-American Christians actually refute faith and experiment in questionable behaviors while living self-absorbed lives. That scenario would not be a true representation of genuine faith - the Christian faith. Christianity is about surrender, abandonment, commitment, faith, trust, repentance, life, love, generosity, peace, and grace - it’s about following Jesus Christ.

The All-American Muslim is basically a public relations attempt to marginalize or soften the “typical” non-Muslim American’s perspective on Islam. It’s an attempt to simple say, “We’re just like you!” The biggest problem here is that story line - it’s a false view of Islam. This is a show depicting marginal or nominal Muslims to put the American conscious at ease. I guess with the show’s poor quality and dismal performance we don’t have to endure much longer this option on TLC’s program lineup. That's the best news of all in this story line.

The New Homeless

2011-12-19T11:22:00.000-06:00

I ran across this piece a couple of weeks ago while researching. The context is Seminole County (Central Florida). Jo and I lived in Seminole County on two separate occasions in the shadow of the Mouse. Born and raised in Central Florida, I recognized the landscape. I know the exact location of the school mentioned in the report. As I listened to the stories, my heart ached. Listen to the statistics for yourself. See the faces of children, the conditions, and the challenges faced on a daily basis. Listen to the fears of the parents. I’m amazed at the resolve and resourcefulness. The face of homelessness is real and changing. People in crisis don’t necessarily make good decisions. Eviction leads to temporary housing. Friends are the first exhaust; it gets old pretty fast. The next stop is a cheap motel. The inability to pay daily or weekly rates leaves a family with no choice but to choose other limited options like an automobile. Survival is now daily. Shelters are full. Public housing waiting lists are extensive. Deposit and fee requirements price apartments beyond reach. Misfortune fosters the cycle of homeless plight. So what do we do? We must do something! It can’t be swept under a carpet nor ignored. We must choose to embrace people in crisis and need. My mind immediately thinks of CARITAS (a local Richmond effort) helping people move from shelter to stability. It’s an example of creativity in bridging the gap - making a difference. How else can we adequately address the homeless epidemic?

Looking for a Gift Idea this Christmas?

2011-12-15T15:40:00.000-06:00

Looking for gift ideas this year? Here’s a suggestion - at least it’s what we’re doing as a family. We’re trying a little something different this year in the Hoffmann household. We’re changing up the way we give gifts in our house. Instead of buying a lot of stuff for each other which often goes increasingly unappreciated as the year goes on, we’ve decided to do something that makes a difference for others. Everyone will still get a nice gift and maybe even a couple of smaller gifts. But, instead of spending what we normally spend on each other as a family, we want to give a portion of it away to others. Here’s how it will works. Each child receives a sum of money. It’s the difference in what we’d typically spend and what we’ve chosen to spend this Christmas. This money - the difference - is to be given away. Each child will choose where to give the money. It can go to a local charity, mission project, needy individual, or organization whose sole purpose is to assist others by meeting needs. Christmas isn’t about spending on ourselves, but is best lived out in generosity. Think about it, Christmas is the time we consider the incredible generosity of God in that He sent His Son - God with us - Immanuel. This Christmas think about creative gift giving scenarios where you can give it away rather than store stuff up for self and family.

Stop Hunger Now @ Cool Spring - Looking Back

2011-12-12T18:56:00.001-06:00

Last week approximately 500 people gathered to pack 40,000 meals in under an hour for Stop Hunger Now. I was thrilled by the Cool Spring response. As you view the quick two-minute time-lapse version of the evening, you’ll see people of all ages working together to accomplish the goal. I appreciate Bryan’s hard work to film and finalize the video. Cool Spring Baptist Church made a difference in world hunger last week. We didn’t just talk about it; we did something about it – the gospel in action – the hands and feet of Jesus.

I Attended My First AA Meeting This Week

2011-11-25T05:00:00.000-06:00

Did the title grab you? I thought it would! I really did attend my first ever AA meeting this week and it was amazing. Due to the invitation of a church member, I attended the group which meets on Tuesday nights at Cool Spring for a special occasion - the annual Thanksgiving Celebration. A bunch of people were present as the celebration filled up the Old Fellowship Hall while overflowing into the New Fellowship Hall. The room was alive with conversation as I arrived. People were eating compliments of a classic covered dish dinner. After a few introductions (most by first name only), I walked over to grab a Diet Coke and worked my way to the rear of the room to gain a perspective for the evening. The program began. A man collects a chip for 30 days sobriety and another for 90 days; people applaud and cheer. I thought to myself, God rescued one, and another, and another. A new life - a sober life - was now being lived. There were so many stories in the room with most experiencing God’s rescue. Even though I hardly knew anyone in the room, I was proud of each one for their desire to change, a fresh determination, and a willful perseverance. God was in the process of rewriting stories; new pages penned daily.

I was mesmerized by the transparency of the participants at the celebration that evening. One by one each person stood admitting past faults, claiming new life, sharing tales of thanksgiving, and praising God. An addict stands verbalizing his thankfulness for family as his wife sits by his side celebrating this sobriety moment. Another stands to share his thankfulness for this Thanksgiving and that when Friday comes this will be a holiday he’ll remember. Another stood thanking God for second, third, and tenth chances. A mother stood thankful for her family, especially her children, who were present to support mom in her new sobriety. Fifteen second "thankful" testimonies continued throughout the evening. Each one similar, but each one unique. Lives were changed, families restored, and a verbal appreciation shared for all the little things we so often take for granted. So many in that room had been down and out and were now up and coming.

As I walked out of the Fellowship Hall toward my office to gather things and head home, I couldn’t help but think this was an example of the church at work - this was real ministry. It’s not the clean, neat, and polished stuff we sometimes try to surround ourselves with at church. These were real people, suffering real challenges, and God was at work in each circumstance. Each life that night was touched by another who came along side to journey during a dark life season. I’m thankful for the invite to attend my first AA meeting this week. What a fresh perspective of God’s moving!

"Lord, I know people are struggling, hurting, and trying to escape the grip of bondage. Please, please, please, never let this broken heart heal that I would be cold or indifferent to the struggles of others. May you use me to be balm, light, help, encouragement to the struggling and injured along this journey. Amen"

Happy Thanksgiving 2011!

2011-11-24T05:00:00.000-06:00

I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving. May this day remind you of all God has done and is doing for you regardless of Life’s season. Always remember - He is yours and you are His. As the Psalmist says, “Give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; His love endures forever. (Psalm 118:1)

Walmart Ain't Starbucks

2011-11-23T05:00:00.000-06:00

Recently, I ran (okay, drove) to Starbucks (off Parham) for my morning grande no-foam soy latte. Actually, I saw a couple of other staff members there too. Starbucks is not only an acquired taste, but a shared addiction. Anyhow, I’m standing in line behind half a dozen people when a lady walks up behind me. She notices the Starbucks Rewards Postcard in my hand and proceeds to wish me a happy birthday. I reply by telling her thank you but that it wasn’t my birthday. The rewards certificate in my hand was for frequenting places like this way too often. She laughed, but continued to talk and what she said made an impact on me. She talked about her love for Starbucks. Her affection was not necessarily for the product, but for the customer service and attention. Her birthday is coming in December and she can’t wait to get her free drink birthday card issued to every gold card holder with Starbucks. She went on to say, “It’s like they actually want me as a customer and want me to spend my money here.” There was a short pause and this phrase, “You know, Walmart never sent me a birthday card and as much money as I spend there...” The point was well made. Starbucks wants the customer to know they’re valued, appreciated, and wanted. Walmart on the other hand concentrates on volume rather than an individual approach. That’s a huge distinction in business models.

The whole incident got me to thinking about church. Do we really take time getting to know each other and the unique tastes and needs of others? Do we as Christians and church-goers intentionally work to make others feel valued, appreciated, and wanted? In proper perspective the church isn’t programming; the church is relationship. If Christ reconciles us to the Father then Jesus’ work is all about the relationship. God’s desire to be in relationship with His creation demonstrates for us the importance of being in relationship (linking) not only to God but with each other. Within and beyond the walls, we ought to demonstrate value, appreciation, and worth. People migrate to where people are valued. Learn a name, stop long enough for a conversation, share a cup of coffee, or enjoy a meal together. I’m there if I believe I can be known, feel needed, and can know others.

Choose to Live Well

2011-11-22T05:00:00.000-06:00

So much of life is a consequence of choice. Therefore it is incumbent upon us to choose wisely. Life minus meaningful choices is just existing. Life lived intentionally and purposefully is real living. If we merely float through life tossed and buoyed by the flow, we barely exist. There’s so much more to life to know and experience. Real living calls out for us to power against the flow. Choose to live rather than exist. Live wisely. Live intentionally. Live purposefully. Live Decidedly. Choose to serve the Lord.

Generosity's Benefit

2011-11-21T05:00:00.000-06:00

Here's a clip of the Kevin Salwen family and their journey to giving half away. I used their example as a illustration yesterday. Their story is both fascinating and compelling. If you were at Cool Spring yesterday, I thought you might like to see a clip first hand. It brings the discussion about generosity front and center. My talk began with the text in Mark 12:41-44. Remember the widow's lesson, "It's not just about what you give, but what you do with what you have." Practicing generosity changes attitudes, lives, and ministry. Homework for this week: Ask God about what He'd have you to give and then ask Him about how you're to steward the rest. Remember to read 2 Corinthians 8:1-9:15.

On Why Churches Reach Potential

2011-11-20T05:00:00.000-06:00

Recently I met with a couple of long-term church members. I enjoyed the conversation while learning things about them and about the church where I serve. Cool Spring has been a lifetime church home for them. I enjoyed their long-term family involvement perspective. I think it shed light on the unique nature of Cool Spring.

During the visit I asked, “How did you live through the transitions here at Cool Spring?” I think it’s an appropriate question to ask a long-term member who remained active through various periods of significant organizational change. Models and methods of ministry dramatically shifted and changed over the years. What once was a smaller rural congregation transitioned into a large suburban church. I found their answer quite compelling. “Things change,” they replied. How true is that statement? It was a simple reply to a complex set of circumstances. Their mindset demonstrated an attitude of adapting well to change. Things happen; stuff changes. You either fight change or choose to embrace change. In my opinion, people and organizations who more readily and willingly engage and adapt to change have healthier and more successful futures. The unwillingness to change promotes stagnation and organizational decline. Always seek relevant, purposeful, and intentional change.

The second response to the same question was even more revealing, “We’re reaching people.” I thought to myself, “Isn’t that what it’s about?” Reaching people with the gospel. All of a sudden the implications of their response came into view. Change happens regardless. It’s a part of life. You choose to resist or embrace. So many waste all their energy on trying to keep a memory that “once was” alive. What “once was” rarely is to be again. Memories are just that, snapshots of the past. Ours is to make new memories as insightful and dramatic. When the mindset is about reaching others, organizational focus isn’t on keeping the organizational roster of the club intact. More important than personal preference, traditions, or past successes was the fact people were being reached with the gospel. Folks, that’s kingdom thinking. Embracing change and reaching people with the gospel.

I think that’s why some churches succeed and others falter. What’s the mindset of the organization? Sure a leader can deploy opportunistic change and live passionately the pursuit of disciple making. But, it’s a much sweeter ride when a willingness for participatory change and a passion for others is in the organizational DNA.

An Achan Heart at Penn State

2011-11-19T07:09:00.007-06:00

I, like so many, have followed the recent Penn State scandal. If true, the story is very sad. The lives of so many have been permanently altered. The lost innocence of children is at the forefront; trust demolished amidst gross negligence. The effect of incomprehensible sin permeates the campus with careers destroyed, institutions tarnished, and so many lives ruined. For years to come Penn State will be synonymous with scandal – of the worst kind. I’m not pronouncing judgment upon the personalities involved. The courts of law and public opinion will do that. But, this awful chain of events remind me of another story.

I’m reminded of Achan’s sin and its consequences in Joshua 7:1-26. Achan’s story is about one man’s sin and how it affected the lives of others. Because of Achan’s lust, people lost their lives (died), an army suffered defeat, and a nation lost its momentum. You can’t help but see the parallels between Achan and the Penn State narrative. Achan’s story reminds me of the powerful negative influence of one’s personal sin upon others. No sin is private and no sin is without consequences and casualties.

Penn State is another visual of the depravity of man. Sin running unrestrained and unaccounted. If true, how can someone do something so diabolical? It’s the depravity of man – the sinfulness of man. It’s a heart and mind turned to the pursuit of self-satisfaction. Every man’s heart is evil. Every man needs to be rescued. What do we need to be rescued from? We need to be from ourselves. We need rescuing from our sin pursuit and its death consequence. This is the stuff Jesus does. He rescues us from ourselves. He saves, changes, forgives, leads, directs, and intercedes. I’m not talking about religion here, most everyone has that to some degree, I’m talking about a living grace initiated and sustained merciful relationship with the Son of God. His name is Jesus.

Actually, this whole story ought to cause each of us to consider our own sin and its consequence. What am I doing or not doing? What needs to change? Is there anything that needs confession or repentance? The time is now.

Defining Thankfulness

2011-11-15T17:24:00.003-06:00

Thankfulness – you either have it or you don’t. It is a powerful attitude, right spirit, proper mindset, obedient thought, and state of being. Thankfulness both defines and shapes. More than a great circumstance or a special moment, thankfulness flows out of one’s confident abiding Christ relationship. As God’s you are blessed beyond comprehension and cared about more than you can fathom. Be thankful and live it.

You Never Know

2011-11-03T07:09:00.005-05:00

We never fully comprehend influence; it’s a domino effect. I began to understand this principle years ago when I started intentionally walking with discouraged and displaced ministers. Every life positively impacted would in turn affect another, and another, and then still another. We have the ability to impact an untold number of people simply by influencing the lives of those in our immediate vicinity. The gospel travels well friend to friend – connect to connect. Who has God placed in your immediacy?

I'm Getting Too Old...

2011-11-02T18:59:00.005-05:00

I guess I’m getting too old or at least old enough not to worry about the fact there are people that don’t like me. I know that’s a rough introduction, but it’s a necessary truth. Somewhere out on the preschool playground we conjured up a notion and bought a lie that everyone needs to like us. Really? Where did that come from? It finds its root in insecurity and fueled by an exhausting and obsessive search for peer acceptance. A long time ago, I realized that not everyone is going to like me and I’m good with that – really. Now to be honest here, I shouldn’t go out of my way to prove the fact that not everyone is going to like me. This isn’t permission to go out and be mean, ruthless, or disagreeable. Don’t head out intentionally creating dislikable fellows. I know Romans 12:18, “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” There is a disclaimer here – as far as it depends on you. I have a responsibility to pursue peace on my end, but unfortunately you can’t control or manipulate someone else’s impression, response, or behavior. There are people that won’t like you regardless. Now repeat after me, “That’s okay!” Get over it now before it’s too late and you end up worrying yourself to death about whether someone likes you or not.

Here’s the advice. Be faithful. Live an untarnished faith. Love Jesus and follow Him regardless. Demonstrate grace, forgiveness, love, and mercy. Be patient with others because you want them to be patient with you. Live a life worthy of the calling. If you do that – don’t worry that there might be one or two (or more) that don’t like or care for you. Leadership isn’t a popularity contest. If I remember correctly, Jesus had a similar problem, but it didn’t deter Him. ☺

Give Thanks Even When You Don't Feel Like It!

2011-10-13T09:48:00.003-05:00

Regardless of where you are or what you're going through in life, look for God in the details and give thanks. He's at work, even if you can't see Him at the moment. He is there - so trust Him, give thanks, and persevere.

I Am Uniquely Created to Give My Life Away

2011-10-13T06:54:00.005-05:00

This life is not a gift to hold, but one to share. Faith is designed to give away. As we go, we make disciples. As we go, we live both love and obedience for our Father by demonstrating this love towards others through obedience. Humility is at the core or center of this generous life. Consider Jesus’ example.

Read through Philippians 2:1-11:

1 Therefore if there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, 2 make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. 3 Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; 4 do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. 5 Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, 6 who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. 8 Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, 10 so that at the name of Jesus EVERY KNEE WILL BOW, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

Live not from selfish desires, gratification, self- righteousness, pride, or haughtiness. Be intentional by placing a high regard on the people around you - even the different ones. Take stock in the interests of others, your personal interests shadow in comparison. This is the attitude we must know and function from because it’s the one Jesus demonstrated for us. His orientation was this attitude. He humbled Himself in order to give His life away. His purpose was to redeem others and His giving was to bring them into relationship with the Father. Jesus gave in order to bring. Giving my life away means transformation, humility, obedience, intentionality, incarnation, and missional living - all this for the sake of people and not necessarily an institution.

Don't tell me how much you know, show me by how you live. How will you give your life away today?

On Muzzles, Microphones, Mormons, and Free Speech

2011-10-12T21:08:00.004-05:00

I think too much has been made of Robert Jeffress’ comments the last couple of days. The media outlets and pseudo pundits have hounded this story to death. It’s time to move on to the next story. But, before we do and in light of the conversation, I can’t help but weigh in on this myself.

First of all, Robert Jeffress is a tax paying American citizen who has a right to a voice. And others want to silence him just because he’s a pastor? His opinion regarding the candidate was his own and not that of the church were he is employed. I think it’s crazy to suggest silencing a minister regarding politics, candidates, and issues because of his or her occupation. What's the next topic you're going to silence a pastor with? I’m a minister, an educated voter, taxpayer, and have an opinion just like everyone else. If I want to attend a political rally in support of a candidate, speak out, put a bumper sticker on my car, write a supportive blog post, submit an editorial, put a campaign sign in my yard, shoot a video to post on Facebook/YouTube, or speak to friends in the congregation where I serve, that’s my right! To take that away is censorship and un-American! Why should my occupation prohibit me from speaking out? I think it’s ludicrous to single out ministers and expect them to be silent on issues and candidates! Last time I looked, free speech is sort of a hallmark characteristic of our country.

In reference to Jeffress’ comment on Mormonism, let’s put political correctness aside for a moment. The LDS Church (Mormonism) is not uniquely Christian. If you study LDS doctrine, you’ll discover it is incompatible with historical Christian faith. While many well-meaning ecumenical patrons attempt to seat them at the table, we can’t construct a tent large enough to fit them under without denying the essential doctrines of the Christian faith. The LDS Doctrine of God, the person and work of Jesus Christ, the Doctrine of Atonement, and salvation differ significantly from historical Christianity. If you’d like to read more regarding a simple contrast between Mormonism and Christianity, you can go here. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is a religion; it’s just not Christian. Well meaning folks just don't want to hear it, but it's true.

Live Responsibly

2011-10-12T13:11:00.008-05:00

You can’t watch a commercial during a televised college or professional football game without hearing the words, “Drink Responsibly.” It’s the tagline reminder to be responsible in your beverage choice consumption and in particular alcoholic beverages. I love the line because it reminds you to consider your choices, actions, and subsequent behavior. I think for leadership we need a similar tagline like, “Live Responsibility.” A leader’s challenge is to consider choices, actions, and behaviors – to live responsibly this life of influence.

Take a moment to read 1 Kings 9:1-9. It’s the detailed conversation God had with Solomon following the dedication. We’re told the Lord appeared a second time to him. The blessing of obedience is the message with barrenness and loss the result of one's disobedience. If Israel is disobedient at any point, God said He’d make her a proverb. People will pass by, hiss, notice the destruction, and comment about a people forsaken due to disobedience. Followship of other Gods is the inappropriate behavior – the chasing, pursuing, and embracing of the created rather than its creator. God’s message to Solomon: Live and Act Responsibly.

The timing of this message is most unique. God comes to Solomon following the completion of several dreams (goals). He’d achieved everything he desired to do. Solomon was residing in the neighborhood of accomplishment. He was a man who’d outlived his dreams. The pinnacle of success is a very precarious place. If we’re not careful to live responsibly, accomplishment can easily give birth to pride. In pride we become self-absorbed – selfishness becomes the new perspective. Our new motto, "It's about me!" At the core of every disobedient act is a selfish mindset. When a man knows success, he is most susceptible to sin and failure. I believe that’s why God came to Solomon – a man of success with no more dreams – to say to him, “Live Responsibly.”

Let me challenge you. Leadership demands responsibility. Live your life responsibly as a leader. The success is His and not yours. Don’t give in to the temptations; you don’t have time to sin. Secondly, never try to lead without a dream. Dreamless leaders are nothing more than managers – overseeing the routine.

In Search of Friendship

2011-10-05T19:20:00.006-05:00

Recently I spoke about the importance of a good friend in life. I firmly believe we are uniquely created to be in meaningful relationship. Too much of Scripture evidences this truth. God shaped us with a specific relational capacity – the ability to know intimacy (meaningful relationship) with God and with other people. Unfortunately, we typically spend too much of life in social and spiritual isolation without fully realizing what we’re missing. We need meaningful relationships in order to rightly exist. Not only does our emotional health depend upon it, so does our spiritual health. So how do I change from relative isolation to meaningful relationship? You must first recognize your need to be in relationship and consequently make the choice to seek connection. Consider these as you begin or fine-tune your search:

Pray asking God to reveal a potential friend or two. Ask Him for a name? Ask him to place someone in your path, a name on your heart, or for an opportunity to connect. Once you have a name, ask God for wisdom in the process.
Before you ever approach a potential friend, prepare for rejection. Not everyone you approach is a best candidate. Some are already connected in meaningful relationships, maybe the timing isn’t right, or perhaps he or she isn’t interested in developing a friendship with you. It’s really okay and you can survive rejection. Real friendship is reciprocal. If the other person isn’t interested in friendship, continue the search. Don’t let rejection deter your search.
Take the first step and risk an introduction. Don’t wait for someone else to approach you regarding friendship, act first. We can sit around waiting a long time for nothing to happen, so make something happen and introduce yourself to others.
Discover a venue that invites conversation. Invite someone for coffee at Starbucks (a personal favorite) or meet up at Barnes & Noble. Maybe grab a quick sandwich at Red Robin or a dessert at Panera Bread Company. Find a place where discussion can happen. Invite a potential friend to play basketball, catch a sporting event, or workout at the Rec Center. Find a non-threatening place to get a conversation going. The dialogue will tell you much about the possibility of friendship.
In the process of getting acquainted, foster opportunities to know each other. As you talk, look for commonalities, interests, differences, and backgrounds. What’s their story? Share your story. Is there a connection or potential friendship? If there is, continue the conversation while developing the connection.

Our lives are full of acquaintances, but in sore need of friends.

Six Ideas to Help Your Pastor

2011-09-30T20:26:00.011-05:00

Pastoring is a unique calling and unlike other vocations. While some glimpse into the minister's life, many don't fully appreciate the complexity. Recently I transitioned to a new ministry. It's been a God thing since day one, an incredible ride. This post isn't necessarily a reflection of my current context. It is however a reflection of having worked with hundreds of pastors during times of transition in ministry since the late 1990s. I think there's stuff we'd like people to know, but hesitant to share. So, if you've ever wondered how you can help your pastor, here are a couple of suggestions. No matter your church home or geography, these work well in most settings. So here's my list of six ideas to help your pastor.

Give time to create. This is the time to dream, vision, and seek. It's time to listen, grow, think, ponder, contemplate, and meditate. A pastor desperately needs time to dream, vision, and create. We need time to hear from God and His leadership. Too often we're caught up in the details of ministry - meetings, appointments, emails, calls, and obligations. While this stuff of ministry is important, nothing can substitute for creative time. Without these extended moments, we become stayed, complacent, stale, and bored. Give your pastor time to create!

Give space to unwind. We all need time and space to unwind. While personality often drives how one refuels, allow your pastor sufficient time to refuel from the often exhausting demands of ministry. While ministry is a calling and we'll run until the tank is empty, we need time to refuel. Rest and renewal are essential in our role. An effective shepherd is a fueled shepherd. Give your pastor down time - encourage it and even require it.

Give effort to connect. Every pastor needs a friend(s). We need people conversation, laughter, adventure, to be known, and to know. While the pastor may know a lot of people, he or she is rarely known. We can't be best friends with everyone, but we really need a few good friends. While we need friendships with fellow ministers, we especially need friends that are a part of the church.

Give a lot of breaks. Every pastor needs a break. I'm not talking about a vacation (even though important), but about some free passes from time to time. Churches are diverse organizations including their expectations. We only have so many hours in the day to accomplish a mile-long list. Chances are your pastor won't live up to all of your expectations. Well, I'm pretty certain we won't. We're not going to get to everything and everyone even though we'll try. Ease up on the expectations and extend grace. We're busy, sometimes late, always on-call, and periodically forget. That's our reminder that we're only human and could really use a break.

Give way to change. With every leader comes a dream - a vision planted upon the heart. It's a drive and a consuming passion. Help your pastor process and create meaningful, significant, and timely change. Heritage is to celebrated, history is to be outlived. Allow your past to shape you, don't let it define you. We're to make an impact on this generation and the generations to come. Change is rarely easy, but it is essential for transformation.

Give support in prayer. Every pastor needs prayer for this is a spiritual work. We're facing a spiritual battle day in and day out. We need people praying for protection, wisdom, strength, and focus. Please pray for the pastor's family too. I can't overemphasize the importance of prayer for your pastor. Pray for him or her often throughout the week. Pray daily for your pastor. Believe it or not, we know when we've been prayed for by the church family.

God's Invitation

2011-09-29T13:43:00.005-05:00

I’ve often thought about Joshua’s transition. You find the story recorded in Joshua 1:1 and following. Moses is dead and the mantle is now passed. God says to Joshua, “Get ready to cross the Jordan.” I wonder what he thought? Previously prohibited from entering the land, now the door is open and the invitation extended. He’d been there before. Joshua knew the land having surveyed it years earlier. He awaited possession while living in the consequence of another’s poor decision and disobedience. Joshua would now lead a people he knew to a land he’d seen and believed to be right. He lived confidently in God’s promise. God was giving the land. No one or thing would stand in the way. God’s presence would be evident – never departing or giving up. God’s word to Joshua was to be strong, courageous, obedient, focused, and learned.

Here are a couple of thoughts taken from the context:

God’s timing is right. There were generational lessons to learn and grow through. There’s always a cost in disobedience. Learn through the discipline. He truly disciplines those He loves. For years the timing had not been right. God opened the door and extended the invitation at the appropriate moment.

Hold on to what you know, the vision you’ve seen, and the future you believe. Joshua had not only surveyed the land, but he’d walked the land. The soles of his feet left prints upon the land years earlier. He knew this to be God’s promise – God would do this. He’d seen, touched, and walked the space. Even through all the wilderness wanderings, I’m certain the images of a promised future were etched upon his heart and mind. Don’t ever give up on the vision – what you know God to someday do.

Live your responsibility. God’s command to Joshua was to be strong (in His strength), live courageously, obedient to God’s instruction, always focused, and demonstrating God’s word. Joshua’s responsibility – live encouraged, obedient, and disciplined. While God was giving, Joshua had a responsibility to model faith. Live faithfully regardless of the circumstances and context.

How about you – Got dreams? Have a vision, promise, or hope that’s yet to be realized? Remember that God’s timing is right, hold to what you know (the dream, vision, hope, or promise), and model faith. God is at work. One day soon you’ll hear the invitation to join Him in the vision.

On Ted Haggard, Gary Busey, and Celebrity Wife Swap - REALLY?

2011-09-26T23:30:00.006-05:00

The headline definitely caught my attention. Really, could it be? Ted Haggard and Gary Busey are trading wives on an upcoming episode of Celebrity Wife Swap? Correction, Ted is still married though Gary has yet to marry his longtime girlfriend and mother of his youngest child. ABC confirmed the rumor. Personally, I think this a poor choice – on the part of both men. I’m not condemning; it’s just that I can see past the dollars signs on this one. Sometimes notoriety is not a good thing nor is every opportunity for publicity appropriate. This is another opportunity for corporate entertainment to poke fun at the Christian faith. Here’s Ted Haggard in a post moral failure appearance. He skipped out on a restoration process and then started a church contrary to sound advice. The new work’s theme is grace - so often the mantra in cases like this. Then there’s Gary Busey. He’s made the reality circuit. He states he’s born again and even has a leadership role with Promise Keepers. Yet, he remains unmarried to the mother of his son born last year. I'm not being critical or self-righteous, but where is the repentance, righteousness, and example on this one? I really want to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but I can tell ABC is going to have a lot of fun with this one at the expense of Christians. It’s too bad and even disappointing – another example of poor decision-making.

Lead You to the Cross

2011-09-26T08:17:00.003-05:00

I stumbled across this music video by No Other Name, “Lead You To The Cross.” It’s been out for while – can’t believe I had not seen it until now. The song is a tribute of sorts to Dr. Martha Myers. She was a Christian doctor who selflessly served people in Yemen. She specifically brought competent medical attention to Muslim woman. Many women in that region were prohibited from seeing a male doctor due to religious reasons. A militant Islamist martyred Dr. Myers for her faith in an effort to deter the Christian witness in a Muslim culture. The song is a moving tribute.

I pray for those trapped by the hopeless works based doctrine of Islam. That each would know the Gospel of Jesus Christ and come to saving knowledge of the truth of Jesus – to know Him, His grace, His life, His sacrifice, His victory, and His salvation.

On Islam, Diversity, Tolerance, and Human Rights

2011-09-17T09:35:00.005-05:00

This week a FBI training manual chapter on terrorism made the news. The story broke via Wired, but was carried by a variety of outlets. The chapter in question reportedly contained anti-Islamic rhetoric. Muslim activists cried foul this week and as a result the material in question was removed. As you sift through the various news outlets and their specific spin on the story, several common themes appear.

Islamic supporters call for tolerance, diversity, and human rights. This is perhaps hypocrisy at its best – claiming one thing and doing another. I’ve done significant research both in bias and non-bias contexts regarding Islam - including dialogues with educated Muslims. These facts remain:

Islam is not a religion of tolerance. If you are a non-Muslim, you are an infidel. Globally, non-Muslims are treated poorly in Muslim cultures. This is documented fact and supported by Islamic teaching and practice. There is no tolerance for teachings of other kinds – specifically Christian or Jewish.

Islam is not a religion that promotes diversity. Diversity is an American core value. In Islam there is no room for diversity. Check out what’s happening in Europe, North Africa, and in the Middle East regions. Muslim groups in Islamic controlled regions particularly and specifically target Christians in hate crimes. There is no freedom of religion in the Islamic dominated culture.

Islam is not a religion that values human rights. There is no doctrine of human rights in Islam. The doctrine of human rights is a western concept – neither taught nor adhered to in Islam. There is no sanctity of human life in Islam.

Here’s my challenge, if you want to influence my perception regarding the reality of Islam, here are a couple of suggestions that would go a long way with me.

Openly and privately promote and practice tolerance of other faiths in Muslim controlled and influenced cultures. I’m going to define tolerance not as accepting differing beliefs as equal and valid as yours, but respecting and protecting the free exercise of one’s faith. Allow and support the practice of the Christian faith where its practice is currently hindered and prohibited. Cry foul and speak out loudly again intolerance practiced by Islamist across the globe. Bring to justice those who would seek to physically harm and intimidate practitioners of non-Islamic faiths.

Openly and privately promote and practice diversity. Instead of trying to convince people of non-existent similarities between Islam and Christianity, point out the differences. While we use similar words the definitions are very different. Muslim outreach efforts deceitfully and knowingly utilize inequitable terminology thus misinforming hearers. I can spend a whole day discussing terms such as God and Messiah. Don’t be afraid of our differences. Islam is a faith built on works and Christianity is a faith built on grace. Ideologically we are very different.

Openly and privately promote and practice human rights globally. Decry its violation is Islamic controlled or influenced cultures. Affirm the rights of women and children. Protect the less fortunate, the disbelievers, and the persecuted. Practice justice for all and seek to secure the rights of every human being.

Interestingly, Islamists are curiously quiet on these issues when they’re called into question. If a Muslim perceives the current culture as intolerant toward Islam, the rhetoric begins to fly. Christians are called hatemongers, intolerant, and even compared to the KKK. Yet, when a Muslim is intolerant of a Christian in a Muslim context, there is silence. Why is that? Islam calls for tolerance in the western context, yet is unwilling to practice it in other contexts. Why is that? Muslims and the educated students of Islam know why. That I will reserve for another post.

I say to the Muslim, “Prove me wrong!” I realize to do so would require you to deny teaching found in your sacred text. Demonstrate for me tolerance, diversity, and human rights. Take the risk! Change!

The Power of Perseverance

2011-09-16T14:18:00.004-05:00

Here’s the clip I made reference to last Sunday in my message, “Don’t Give Up!” It’s an incredible example of the power of encouragement – especially of the importance of having someone walk with us during times of trial, hurt, and disappointment. I love watching Derek’s dad run onto the track to walk with his son. Perseverance is an essential trait to be lived out in God’s strength. This I know: Life isn’t without pain and doing the right thing isn’t always easy – Live and do the right thing anyway!

Life Additives

2011-09-16T13:46:00.004-05:00

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33

I’ve meditated on this verse quite a bit the past week in preparation for Sunday. I’ll make reference to this passage during the weekend message. Ponder the end of the verse with me. The word "given" is often translated "added" in other texts. I think I like the word added better than given. While "given" expresses something extended and unearned. Added emphasizes another intriguing aspect. If you’re adding something in context, there must be something that already exists to which you are adding. When we’re engrossed with searching for His leadership and determining His leading, He gives, provides, and adds the things that have so often have stolen our affection or attention. Is that not crazy? Do you know how much time we’ve probably wasted worrying with or being consumed with stuff, when all the time we could have been captivated by Him? Here’s why I like added, it reminds me of God’s continued momentary provision. Day in and day out He adds to my life – providing and meeting. When I think about “added” I’m reminded of the constancy and consistency of His provision. He adds blessing upon blessing. His goodness, grace, and extravagance overwhelm me. Thank you Lord for how you add to my life everyday – you know, meet, and care for my every need. May you be reminded of God's provision in your life today.

He Cares for the Details

2011-09-13T19:59:00.004-05:00

I’m being transparent reminded of God’s concern for life’s details. Back during the spring in Texas, my youngest daughter made her junior high cheer squad – a great accomplishment and dream fulfillment. This success was booked well before we had an inkling of a possible move. When Virginia entered into the picture, the thought of my daughter’s cheering lingered throughout the discernment process of our relocation. As time progressed, I was increasingly confident of God’s call to Cool Spring. Yet, I was concerned about the timing and its impact on her. It wasn’t until our first visit that we learned cheer tryouts in Hanover didn’t happen until after school started in September. This was hope’s glimmer. Confident in the call, my wife and I had to trust – not only for the big stuff, but also for the details. We both knew God’s provision for our family would be right regardless. We prayed as have many others. We waited post earthquake, hurricane, first day of school, and several days of tryouts. Just this evening we received word she made the cheer squad at her new school.

I’m not sure I can adequately describe the contentment I know at this moment. Last night, our son made the football team. Tonight, we know our daughter will have a opportunity to cheer at her new school. These details were important to my children. Sure there are other things I’d like to see such as the sale of a house in Texas, but I’m confident this too will happen in God’s economy and timing. But tonight my heart is warmed; a huge family detail in the transition has been cared for in a very sweet way. I’m thankful for how God deals with the details – the affirmations along the way. Thank you, Lord. You are good!

Preparing for September 11, 2011

2011-09-05T14:34:00.002-05:00

The 10th anniversary of September 11 arrives Sunday with politics and positioning hitting the airwaves, print media, and blogs. Who is at fault? Who is to blame? Who wants to shed perceptions? What should we do on that day? Islam is selling a self-promotion campaign of apple pie and baseball – the all American faith. The American President wants you to participate in a community service project that day. It’s as if others are attempting to define that day for you without the images of hate, destruction, and tragedy. Even though it has been ten years, I still remember where I was on that date – remembering all too well the images of the Twin Towers in New York City, the Pentagon, and the open field near Shanksville, Pennsylvania – thousands lost their lives on that day. I remember the feelings of uncertainty, unsettledness, and concern as America was under attack from an unseen and illusive enemy. This war we were unprepared to fight. In the days and weeks that followed, the enemy was identified. Though the faces of our attackers have changed, the battle still rages. This subversive anti-American cause still exists and flourishes across the globe. This is a cultural battle about systems, ideology, and religion. As long as the American ideal thrives, this war continues.

The worst thing we as citizens could ever do is become complacent. Battles aren’t won in complacency, but in preparedness, valiance, and perseverance. May we never forget September 11, 2001! The freedoms we enjoy today are at the core of the battle. Freedom, opportunity, and choice are up for grabs. Democracy is despised; the American ideal reviled globally. As a nation, America must remain ever vigilant. We must protect her borders, her interests, and her causes! We must not slumber on this watch. May we be found good stewards of the entrustment.

And what about the church? What’s her role in all of this? What is our calling? We must remember, honor, work, and pray. We remember the loss and the cost. We honor those who served, gave, and sacrificed. We must not sit, but bear the banner of truth. Let us remember the great commands. We must love God and others – become neighbors to those in need. Let us live out the great commission – making disciples. Let us work tirelessly to carry the gospel to every corner. The mere existence of evil should both cause and challenge the church to rise and carry the light into very dark places. THE ANSWER IS CHRIST – the hope and salvation of our day.

As we prepare for September 11, may we never forget.

Thoughts About Last Sunday

2011-08-30T20:53:00.000-05:00

“Inspiring” would be the first word I’d use to describe last Sunday. It was definitely memorable for me as it was my first Sunday at Cool Spring. For those of you that don’t know, we had a little storm roll through the area Saturday night; Irene was her name. While it could have been much worse, she did a fair amount of damage and created moderate inconveniences such as the loss of electricity. By sunrise Sunday the storm cleared. When I arrived at church, the sun was shining and a cool gentle breeze was blowing. The absence of electricity was the immediate. The decision was made to go from three to two services and move everything into the Sanctuary. Doors were propped and windows opened while that gentle cool breeze blew through the building. Lots of people arrived early to help – a sweet picture of a church in action.

Of all the observations to make about Sunday, one thing is for sure. Though we were absent of electricity, we were not absent of power. Enthusiasm, excitement, and energy were all present. But most important – His presence was obvious. God is moving at Cool Spring! I have to comment about another observation at the 10:00 a.m. service that will forever stick in my mind. We sang a song in that service which comes with a special memory for me. I well remember singing this song during a packed prayer meeting at the Brooklyn Tabernacle with a people unhindered in worship and a full altar – a rich and powerful moment in my life. Last Sunday, we sang, “How Great is Our God” without electrical amplification, no screens, and with minimal instrumentation. People sang with a passion from words not written on a screen but written upon their hearts about the greatness of God – powerful. The energy and truth of the moment was inspiring. We’d been through the storm and knew His greatness all the more. That moment is now etched upon my heart as the most memorable rendition moment of “How Great is Our God.”

If you don’t know the song, I’ve included Chris Tomlin’s version.

I Know...

2011-08-30T07:44:00.007-05:00

12 That is why I am suffering as I am. Yet I am not ashamed, because I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day.

2 Timothy 1:12 (bold for emphasis)

These things I know...

I know He loves me
I know He redeemed me
I know He is my salvation
I know He is my being
I know He provides well for me
I know He cares for me
I know He gives every good thing
I know He is my healer
I know He is the miracle worker
I know He gives me breath
I know He is my strength
I know He is my protection
I know He understands my needs
I know He is compassionate
I know He is truth
I know He is great
I know He is my covering
I know He is my peace
I know He is my confidence
I know He is my life
I know He is my vision
I know He is my passion
I know He is my light
I know He is my hope
I know He is my foundation
I know He is my future
I know He is faithful
I know He is trustworthy

What might you add to this list? What do you know of Christ today? Live from the knowing. The more you know, apply. The more you apply, live. Live with confidence!

20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.
Ephesians 3:20-21

On Earthquakes, Hurricanes, and Perspectives

2011-08-25T22:24:00.005-05:00

It’s been an exciting and affirming adventure this week. Last Sunday concluded nearly eight years of ministry in Baytown. Memorial is a good place with a lot of great and wonderful people. I’m thankful our paths intersected for the journey. On Monday, we loaded our two cars with remaining personal belongings and headed east. Angie and I traveled in the Beetle. Jo, Chris, and Lily, the Labradoodle took the Jeep. Hattiesburg was our Monday night stop. We ended our second day in Knoxville. On day three, Mechanicville was the destination. After 21 ½ hours of driving, we arrived at our new home (approximately 4:30 p.m.).

Here’s where the trip becomes intriguing. Angie and I were traveling down the road when she receives a text from a friend. The text merely read there’d been an earthquake in Virginia. An earthquake, really? My initial response was one of doubt, which soon turned to belief following a Google news search. Many thoughts now rolled through our minds. Was anyone hurt? What was the magnitude of the damage? How was the church – people are always there for something? You can only image the number of texts and calls we received – folks from Texas and Virginia. Earthquakes are very rare in the region and for many it was a first experience. In fact, early Thursday morning there was an aftershock. Actually, I didn’t feel it. I guess I was too tired to be “shaken” out of a deep sleep.

I’m sitting in the living room window seat of the new house as I’m writing this. A technician is cleaning the upstairs’ carpet at 9:52 p.m. The furniture arrives Friday. I’m wondering about what my new yet to be met neighbors are thinking about the noise in our front yard. I’m watching the weather reports like many other Virginia residents. A hurricane is on its way up the east coast and we’ll receive some of Irene’s wind and rain. Thought I left Texas to get away from the hurricanes? Well, I guess not. It’s hard to believe that two significant natural events transpired the week of our arrival. It makes you think.

To be perfectly open, I do my best not to allow adversity to distract me. I’m confident in God’s call and I'm confident in the future God has for Cool Spring. Sure it causes one to ask, “What is God doing here?” But, this is the way I look at it. Here’s how I’m going to interpret the earthquake: God is getting ready to shake some things up a bit. That’s not a bad thing; in fact it’s a rather exciting thing. Sometimes God's best work takes place when He moves us out of our comfort zone. Here’s how I’m going to interpret the storm: God is getting ready to blow a fresh wind through this place. That’s not a bad thing either; it’s part of the adventure of being on mission with God. My perspective on this whole week is that God is most definitely at work. I can’t wait to join in!

Go Ahead and Belt It Out

2011-08-18T20:28:00.004-05:00

I’m at the dining room table surrounded by cardboard boxes. Jo and the kids are at a last rehearsal for the Amazing Grace Race. This will be my last night to sit at this table in this room. As I gaze across the front yard, my eyes are drawn to the sky and I’m captivated by sunset beauty. The expanse of the western sky is a glowing orange shaded in lighter and darker tints. It is majestic. I’m thanking God for allowing me to witness its beauty. Then I am reminded, each day the Lord lifts and sets the sun. It is because of Him I exist. The breath I breathe is the breath He gives. He created, knows, loves, cares, feeds, directs, and redeemed me. He knows me and by grace through faith I know Him. It is all because of Him. He deserves praise from this life. I must give Him glory, praise, and honor. I was reminded of this song – Glory in the Highest. Take a moment to listen and sing along with Chris Tomlin. If you’re alone, belt it out! Jesus deserves your praise. There’s no one quite like Him. Declare His glory right now. Tell Him, love Him, and worship Him. I love you Jesus – thank you for this life and for this hope that is to come.

Righteousness in the Barrenness

2011-08-13T19:42:00.006-05:00

Are you familiar with Zechariah and his wife Elizabeth? They were the parents of John the Baptist. Mom and dad were uncommonly common. He was a priest; they were faithful God servants. Both were surrendered, authentic, and real people. Scripture refers to them as upright in God’s sight and obedient faith followers living the commands and regulations. The Bible terms them blameless. Zechariah and Elizabeth were real people living obediently the faith. Yet in the midst of righteousness, there was emptiness. Elizabeth was barren throughout her childbearing years. This is reality – real life. Here are two very faithful people, yet in the midst of their faithfulness resided barrenness. This is the stuff of which real faith is made. Circumstances, disappointments, or empty spaces didn’t deter their faithfulness, obedience, or blameless walk. They lived surrendered regardless of an unmet life longing. We later discover she’s pregnant in the story. That’s another incredible part of this faith journey. But, for this moment, I want to focus on the righteousness in the barrenness.

Here’s the truth about faith, sometimes you’re going to feel as though you’re living, doing, and being according to God’s call and yet there’s still an unmet longing, emptiness, or desire – it’s something you can not dismiss. Here’s the best advice I can give you. Keep on being faithful, living obediently, pursuing His call and direction upon your life. Live for the intimacy, the knowing, and the being – not the blessing. The richness of the relationship comes in the intimacy and not the blessings. I’ve witnessed some that have fallen by the wayside in barrenness. Sometimes the barrenness can be discouraging, don’t let it deter or interrupt the rhythm of the relationship with your Father.

Some faith traditions claim something must be wrong with you or your faith if you’re not living in a constant state of financial or circumstantial blessing. These folks just need to put a lid on it because that’s bad theology. Don’t waste your time chasing the blessing, but pursue the one who blesses and not for the sake of the blessing. He’s more interested in your obedience – that’s love demonstrated. Live as blamelessly in the valley as you do on the mountaintop. Don’t live a fair weather faith – live blamelessly in the barrenness for the blessing will come. Enjoy what you learn as you wait. God teaches some pretty incredible lessons in barrenness as you obediently follow Him. Zechariah and Elizabeth are a testament.

6 Both of them were upright in the sight of God, observing all the Lord’s commandments and regulations blamelessly. 7 But they had no children, because Elizabeth was barren; and they were both well along in years. Luke 1:6-7 (NIV84)

Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing

2011-08-04T20:40:00.006-05:00

There is truly one constant in life – change. As much as you try to contain it, change rages onward with or without you. When I consider change, I think about the song, “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.” Robert Robinson penned the text at the age of 23. His story is simple - a story of change. His father died at the age of eight. He was a handful to say the least for his mother. As a troubled 14 year-old young man, his mother sent him to school to become a barber’s apprentice. At the age of 17, he and some drinking buddies attended an evangelistic meeting with the intention of stirring up trouble. That night, George Whitfield preached, Robert listened, and the young men caused no trouble. Three years later at the age of 20, Robert Robinson surrendered his life to Jesus. Not long thereafter, he would yield to a call into ministry. Robinson wrote these words to accompany a sermon he prepared to preach. He’s a young man, troubled, distance, disadvantage, searching, at odds with God and his mother. Yet, Jesus would get his attention and garner his affection. Jesus changed a young man. I want you to think of change (the change Christ brings) the next time you sing, “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.” Jesus is truly the fount of every blessing. By the way, I really like this arrangement. Hope you do to!

On Humility and Its Result

2011-08-04T10:41:00.004-05:00

Humility is both a vital and valiant act. It is a decision, an action, utter dependence, a willing subjection, and complete surrender. Merriam-Webster defines humility as a state of being humble. Humility is a foreign and sometimes illusive state. It’s intentional – it doesn’t just happen. James 4:10 states, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” Humbling oneself is a declarative action and here in James it is an imperative command. You choose humility and its state. Here’s the unique character of humility. When you seek humility, God lifts up. Yet, when we try to lift ourselves, then we are brought lower in a forced rather than volunteered humility. The funny part about residing in humility - you’re not concerned about being lifted up because it’s not your pre-occupation. In humility one becomes consumed and absorbed by God’s will, plan, and direction. The direct result of humility is a lifting. The result of prideful lifting is God’s lowering. Matthew 23:12 states, “Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” Again, it is in humility that God lifts. Never seek self-lifting or self-exalting, choose humility. Be ever on guard for the allure of pride – the temptation to self-lift and self-promote. Instead of lifting oneself up, the empowerment we actually desire is found in the state of humility.

The Rumor is True

2011-08-03T22:44:00.005-05:00

I guess it’s time to break the silence. I’m thankful for the prayers of many, as it’s been a rather stressful day. Since our return to Baytown Monday evening, I’ve been somewhat anxious – not worried (since I just taught on that subject a couple of weeks ago). After conversations with a couple of key leaders, church staff, and the Staff Committee, I made the official announcement this evening that I am resigning my position as pastor at Memorial Baptist Church in Baytown, Texas. I had to share with a bunch of people I love dearly that God had something else in store for me as well as for them. This principle I know, “God never works on one end where He doesn’t work on the other.” Of this I am confident - God is definitely at work in the whole situation. In case you haven’t heard, this past Sunday I accepted the call to serve the Cool Spring Baptist Church in Mechanicsville, Virginia as pastor.

Everyone Needs a Second Chance

2011-07-23T21:20:00.005-05:00

People need a second chance – maybe a third, fourth, or tenth. I really appreciate people like Barnabas. I love his heart, his stance, and his ability to stand in the gap for others. Even in questionable circumstances, he affirmed, challenged, believed, and opened doors. We need men and women like that – people willing to give or facilitate a second chance.

You might remember a short conversation between Paul and Barnabas recorded in Acts 15:36-41. Paul suggested to Barnabas that together they visit all the towns where they’d previously preached. What a great idea! There was only one problem. Barnabas wanted to take John Mark with them and Paul was dead set against it. So what was the big deal about? John Mark had deserted Paul and Barnabas in Pamphylia returning to Jerusalem on an earlier journey. To use Paul’s phrase, John Mark was a “deserter” and didn’t finish the work. Apparently, the disagreement was so sharp, Paul and Barnabas split up. Barnabas took John Mark and sailed for Cyrus. Paul took Silas and traveled through Syria and Cilicia.

I don’t fault Paul. He’d been burned, deserted, and disappointed by John Mark before. For one reason or another, he didn’t want to take a second chance. He chose Silas, a proven member of the team. But then there’s Barnabas and he was present for the previous desertion. Instead of writing John Mark off, he decided to give him another opportunity. He’s a man of second chances – it’s his specialty. In fact, I remember when Saul (Paul) was trying to get a hearing with the disciples, it was Barnabas who spoke on his behalf – introducing and vouching for him. That’s the kind of man I want to be – building, vouching, encouraging, mentoring, and equipping the one in need of the second chance.

Christians are infamous for shooting their wounded or giving up on the “failures" around them. When did God ever tell us to give up on those who have disappointed us? Real ministry happens in the second chance. We administer grace in the second chances. There are plenty of people all around us suffering in brokenness derived from failure – they’ve disappointed others. Who is willing to stand with them? They just need someone to walk and take the journey (to care, forgive, and administer grace) of the second chance.

Tiger Woods, Steve Williams and Friendships

2011-07-21T10:40:00.004-05:00

Good friendships are hard to come by – consuming to develop and intentional to keep. I caught the recent split between professional golfer Tiger Woods and his caddie of twelve years Steve Williams. You can read the Fox News article here. While I’m not going to speculate on the separation or past friendship, the seeming demise of their relationship got me to thinking about this thing called friendships.

We’ll have very few level four or five friendships (scale according to Gary Smalley) in a lifetime. But, of those deeper and significant relationships, there are some essential and necessary components. Strong friendships require intimacy or closeness – the communication or expression of needs and feelings. What do I mean by intimacy? It’s the willingness, practice, and risk of knowing another and being known; walls are removed and the real you is revealed. Intimacy involves transparency. Few if any secrets are hidden in deeper friendships.

In significant friendships, you don’t take advantage of one another. You invest into the friendship sometimes equally at other times the investment is lopsided. Friends are loyal confidants. Information is never used to gain an upper hand in the relationship. You don’t use another to get something you want and then dispose of the friendship. Significant friends are equals, sharpening each other, trustworthy, transparent, authentic, and reliable.

Do you have any significant friendships? Are you a genuine friend?

Someone Got My Card!

2011-07-17T16:11:00.004-05:00

At the office doing some research yesterday, I received an “Unknown” call. At first glance I figured if you want to be unknown, you don’t want to talk to me. Come to discover after a short voice mail, it was my credit card company with a fraud alert. Leaving a case number, he asked for a return call as soon as possible. I went online to check my card and noticed two charges from a vendor I didn’t recognize. I returned the call to the fraud specialist. Apparently, someone in Detroit, Michigan was charging gas (I guess) at a $100.00 a clip. Obviously, I denied the charges, as I’ve not been in Detroit this week. Actually, I can’t remember every being in Detroit. As protocol goes, the company put a hold on your account and issued a new card and number.

This was a first for me. I don’t ever remember having my number stolen and used by an unauthorized user. While I won’t be liable for the charges, I know that someone will be – either the vendor (Citgo) or the card company. I’m sorry for both of these. But, actually, I feel sorry for the individual(s) that knowingly swiped the card using a stolen number. The moment they used the card, they committed a crime. Somewhere along the way a regular person found himself or herself in a place of desperation to choose criminal activity to fund their existence. Was this their first swipe, second, third, hundredth, or thousandth time? Do you become calloused to the activity or still look over your shoulder? Do they have kids, a family, or a sick relative? Were they caught up in the downturn of the Detroit economy – perhaps a former automotive manufacturer employee? Is it a store employee? I don’t know and probably will never.

One thing is for sure, I feel sorry for this person who chose this path – that life’s situation would influence someone enough to cross over the line between right and wrong. I pray for this person and for their family that will live with the consequence once caught.

You Are More!

2011-07-06T14:03:00.003-05:00

Grace is difficult to receive. We’re not wired to receive grace, but to work for results. That’s why I think the “past” is so difficult to overcome or outlive for so many. We allow the past to define rather than shape. I think that’s what I like about this song. You are more than past mistakes or seasons of regret – you are more! Out of brokenness comes life extraordinaire. When one comes to Christ, you are remade and transformed – not just renovated. I love the video imagery. The background is chalked full of mistakes, hurts, and misdeeds. Then watch for the cleansing (the erasure from the self-kept record). Remember that God forgives even though it’s much more difficult to forgive self. Receive Christ’s forgiveness and then forgive yourself.

Church Staff Team Killers

2011-07-06T07:59:00.003-05:00

Here’s a list of what I’d refer to as common church staff team killers:

Alliances – In a diverse staff setting, like-minded members have a tendency to gravitate to each other. When similar minded subgroups, alliances, or partnership are formed in a group, there is a great potential for agenda, philosophy, and strategy promotion. Partnerships are often formed to the exclusion of others and their ideas. Alliances compromise trust and value in the staff; it kills the team. If your staff is diverse, celebrate the diversity of backgrounds and ideas because creativity is birthed in diversity.

Egos – It’s the old mindset that what “I” do is more important than what you do. Ego is a huge staff killer. The team is a living organism. Each member plays an important role. Placing undo importance on one member/ministry over another only creates division and a lack of worth on the part of others in the group. Humility goes a long way in teamwork. Don’t let your ego lead to team dysfunction.

Stagnation – Stagnant staff members that are unwilling to grow and try new ideas are staff team killers. Learning members are typically willing members. Don’t let the history of a previous context or a failure in the past exclude innovation in your current setting. Make sure you are growing, reading, learning, and risking. We should never quit growing or risking for that matter.

Unpreparedness – The lack of preparation, follow-through, or incomplete assignments create distrust among staff members. When other members continually compensate for an unprepared staffer, it kills the staff team. It’s the whole burdens and loads thing. We help others shoulder burdens (stuff they are unable to do on their own), but there’s a load we must all carry. Make sure you’re prepared, that you follow-through, and complete your assignments.

Sarcasm – Sarcasm regardless of whether it is private or public erodes trust. Without trust, you will not have genuine teamwork. It’s been said, there’s a little bit of truth in every sarcastic word. Don’t cut at other’s weaknesses, mistakes, or personality for the sake of levity. Sarcasm never includes, but alienates.

Miscommunication - Communication is unique to the individual. What is an effective communication style for one is perhaps ineffective for another. Staff team members must understand the personality, leadership style, and communication habits of fellow members. Know how best to communicate with each other both personally and professionally. Miscommunication is a staff team killer.

Pretending - Last, but not least. A couple of years ago, I was leading a conference for church staff members regarding my book. I was asked the question, “What is it that a pastor wants to know about their staff?” My reply, “Your pastor wants to know your heart.” During a breakout session, a staffer in a local church responded with concern about my reply. His point, “I can’t really tell my pastor what’s on my heart without the risk of being fired.” This is a classic example of staff team dysfunction. This is a trust issue. Somewhere along the way trust never developed between this pastor and staff member. Here’s my thought, I’d rather know what my fellow staffer is thinking from him or her and have an opportunity to dialogue about it rather than hear it from someone else down the road. When people are willing to risk communication, we need to honor the risk and respond appropriately. We talk about authenticity in faith, here’s a great opportunity to practice the talk. If team members are unwilling or unable to communicate true feeling, thoughts, and ideas with fellow staff members, you’ll never have a staff team. The reason is loud and clear – trust and communication go hand in hand. If I’m unable to communicate due to a level of distrust, it’s impossible for genuine teamwork to exist. Instead of trusting, we go about pretending. And when we pretend, there will never be genuine creativity and collaboration in the group. Pretending is a staff team killer.

The Crystal Cathedral and the Choir Covenant

2011-07-05T15:44:00.007-05:00

I’ve watched the Crystal Cathedral and Robert Schuller drama from a distance through a variety of media reports. It’s a rather sad ending to a fairly spectacular ride. There’s not much to comment about regarding the bankruptcy or the board maneuverings this weekend. It is what it is.

The story that peaked my attention is related to the choir and worship team covenant at the Cathedral. Sheila Schuller Coleman introduced the document earlier this spring. The document affirms marriage as between a man and a woman while additionally setting forth faith guidelines for worship leadership. If you’d like to see a copy, click here. I’m not really sure what the press (or choir member) fuss is all about. Establishing guidelines for leadership isn’t typically a novel practice for churches, but apparently it’s a rather new practice for the Cathedral.

I was a bit taken back by Robert Schuller’s response following the clamor about the covenant. He disagreed publically with his daughter’s introduction of the covenant by stating, “We don't test anyone who comes to our ministry. We don't require them to be Christian. We would not demand that they be born-again Christians" Really? That sounds a bit odd to me. Sure, you open your doors to anyone that walks over the threshold, but when it comes to leadership, I expect a little more. I’d expect the person singing or leading in worship to be a Christian. I’d expect the individual teaching Biblical truth to be born again. Wouldn’t you? I expect more from worship leadership – leading out of the overflow in one’s experience with Christ. I can’t expect anyone to be perfect, but I can expect my church leadership to be Christ followers.

Maybe that’s the issue with the Crystal Cathedral. It was never built on anything more than a man’s dream, achieved by a man, and done for a man. If you want to read more, here’s the USA Today story from March.

This July 4th...

2011-07-01T20:42:00.007-05:00

Freedom. This weekend we pause to reflect on its reality. We live in a country where personal freedoms are valued. The cost is staggering; its path unlike any other. You know, experience, live, and practice freedom because of the work of another. Courageous men and women stood against tyranny and despotism. You celebrate freedom at the cost of another’s blood. We have what we have because someone else sacrificed. While soldiers shed their blood for an earthly and temporary freedom, there’s another named Jesus who willingly shed His blood upon a cross to purchase an eternal freedom for you. Real freedom is discovered, lived, experienced, and realized in Jesus. As you know Him, you know and live both freedom and peace. As you celebrate the 4th this weekend - celebrate the freedom you have in Jesus Christ.

Quit Messing with My Bible! (Please)

2011-06-21T15:20:00.004-05:00

I’m perplexed – the Bible version I’ve known and loved for years is now going out of print. My first leather Bible as a student was the New International Version 1978. My parents gave me a copy on Christmas 1980. When the NIV 1984 came out, I quickly grabbed a copy of the update. This is the version I’ve used nearly my entire pastoral ministry. I preach, teach, read, and study from this version. Sure, I use other versions (translations and paraphrases) for devotional reads like the NASB, ESV, NLT, NKJV, and the Message. But, I’m particularly fond of the NIV 1984.

Zondervan and Biblica released an updated version of the New International Version – the NIV 2011. Unfortunately, there are some significant challenges with this new version. The NIV 2011 is not a revision of the NIV 1984, but more of a revision of the discontinued TNIV – Zondervan’s initial attempt at a gender-neutral Bible (widely hailed a flop). The gender inclusiveness of the NIV 2011 is a challenge for many. I don’t think we need to run from, hide, or cover up gender identity in Scripture. God made them both – male and female. Eliminating or tampering with the masculine or feminine identity in Scripture jeopardizes the meaning or intent – compromising the interpretation. This is not the only interpretation concern with the NIV 2011, but there are numerous others. While I appreciate Zondervan’s attempt to create a modern day translation, one must be cautious in the pursuit of perceived relevance while negotiating with the beast of political correctness or cultural acceptance. You must be very careful not to add or subtract from God’s word – that’s a command from Him. What’s next in the pursuit of cultural relevance? Do we remove unpopular doctrines - perhaps an eternal hell from its pages?

Here’s the challenge for me. I’ve been a faithful reader and expositor utilizing the NIV 1984 that is discontinued and yet I cannot recommend one of the 1.9 million published copies of the NIV 2011 to others. What to do? I’ve got to start shopping for a new translation. If you have a favorite translation, let me know what and why. It’s a big move and one not to be taken lightly. I wish they'd keep publishing the NIV 1984 - that would be an easy solve for me.

If you're interested in discovering more on the changes present in the NIV 2011, click here.

What are you listening to?

2011-06-17T12:54:00.005-05:00

I searched for a new phone this week not because I wanted to, circumstances required it. I dropped it, it shattered, and that’s the end of the iPhone 3 era for me. As I synced my new iPhone with iTunes, I took a few moments to review my list of subscribed podcasts. I listen to a variety of people on a regular basis. We all have sources of information – we read, listen, and subscribe to various outlets. It’s interesting to learn the listening habits of others. To what podcasts do you subscribe? Here’s a sampling of my current subscriptions:

Catalyst (Leadership resource) – It’s a great resource on Christian thought and ministry leadership ideas for those on the front lines.
HBR IdeaCast (Leadership/ Business Resource) – Good resource for business leadership with good application.
Hillsong Church (Brian Houston) – I really like his stories, simple approach, and enthusiastic presentation.
Idlewilde Baptist Church (Ken Whitten) – I really appreciate Ken, his ministry, and have a great deal of respect for him.
Insight for Living (Chuck Swindoll) – I have listened to Swindoll for years and appreciate his integrity, simplicity, and accuracy.
The Market Place of Ideas - An eclectic collection of cultural interviews with a bent for creativity.
Reflections (Ken Boa) – I appreciate Ken Boa’s textual approach as well as his approach to spiritual formation.
Memorial Baptist Church (Me) – Yes, I listen to myself for self-critique.
The Sherwood Podcast (Michael Catt) – I appreciate Michael, his integrity, and his passion for creativity in ministry.

What podcasts have you found helpful? What Christian, business, or cultural sources do you regularly listen to for information and inspiration?

“The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue growing as long as we live.” ~ Mortimer Adler

Patriotism and Sanctuary

2011-05-31T20:18:00.005-05:00

I was in Tallahassee on Monday. While I sat waiting in the hotel lobby, I overheard a conversation not far from me. I wasn’t intentionally listening in, but the subject matter caught my attention. One hotel employee asked another, “What is Memorial Day?” The other responded with an uncertain and incorrect answer. Neither knew about nor understood the purpose of Memorial Day. Their ignorance shocked me. When Angie (my daughter) came to the lobby, I asked her what she knew about Memorial Day and she got it right on the spot.

This holiday is more than a day for vacations or traveling. It’s not just another federal holiday. It is the day when we memorialize those who not only fought for this country, but also gave their lives in the process. The blood of men and women purchased our freedom. These are mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, sons, and daughters. Even with all her problems and disappointments, there is not other place so blessed as America. Our freedoms and opportunities are nearly unparallel by any of the 195 nations.

While the debate about nationalism, patriotism, and sanctuary continue one fact remains – the debate is possible due to the sacrifice of these soldiers. I never fought in the military, but have the upmost respect for our soldiers. They fight for purpose, principle, and our protection. May we never forget their contribution or the many who sacrificed their own existence in order that we might thrive in freedom!

We must be careful to grow a generation that never forgets. I’m reminded of the Israelites in Judges 2. Joshua died. Then we read, “After that whole generation had been gathered to their fathers, another generation grew up, who knew neither the Lord nor what He had done for Israel.” I’m fearful we’re forgetting. It’s in the forgotten disaster encroaches. God gave us a wonderful country, so many blessings, and unsurpassed successes. God must be acknowledged, praised, and thanked publically in the houses of worship. Nationalism should never become our God, but stewardship demands education, thankfulness, and acknowledgment. Celebrate what God has done for America in the worship of our Lord. Acknowledge Him and Him alone. Thank Him for His goodness, blessing, and provision. A lack of acknowledgment is a demonstration of thanklessness. God entrusted America’s citizens with a great and awesome gift. Let us never forget it nor shrink from our role as stewards. Teach the people what God has done and about the people who gave their lives in the cause. Never, never, never forget!

Bring the flag into the sanctuary, but don’t worship it. Recognize the gift and its entrustment and our responsibility in stewardship. May we never forget what God has done!

On Preacher's Kids

2011-05-26T18:14:00.004-05:00

Outside of being a pastor’s wife, I’m not sure there’s a more difficult job than being a preacher’s kid. Hands down – it’s a tough occupation. While a spouse (sometimes) has a choice in whether to marry a minister or not, children don’t usually have that luxury. They don't choose their parents. In fact most are born though some are dragged into the fishbowl. I have three great kids and none of them had a choice – they’re preacher’s kids.

You do know the expectation drill for a preacher’s kids? Every PK is required to be perfect, always on time, appropriately dress, dripping with kindness, always possessing a smile with kindness in their heart, always helpful, neat, perfect student, fine athlete, FCA leader, first place in Bible Drill, quote the Bible from memory, like hymns (really?), play an instrument, perfect attendance award winner, and the list goes on and on.

We need to cut preacher’s kids some slack! They are human, normal, and everyday people that happen to have a parent that serves as a pastor. That doesn’t make them any more holy. Neither should it require them to live under a more stringent code of expectations than the next student or church member. Jo and I are blessed! We have three great kids and I am proud of each! We have been blessed with supportive and encouraging congregations that have blessed our family. That is not always the case for the minister’s family.

If you’re a pastor, pray for your kids daily (maybe hourly). If you’re a church member, pray for and support your pastor’s children. Don’t place arduous and unrealistic expectations on him or her just because they’re a pastor’s kid. Help them live healthy well-adjusted lives even when they reside in a fishbowl. Love and include them as any other child. Remember, it’s not easy being a pastor’s kid and they didn’t necessarily ask for the role.

In praying daily for my kids, here’s my request. I ask God to grow (nurture) my children into becoming solid and serving churchmen in the days ahead. I pray for God to grant them a similar love for the church their dad shares. I love the church and in all her imperfections she is still the bride. I pray for God to give them a passion for the Commission that cannot be eclipsed by the organization (church). I pray God's protection, His anointing, and His purpose for my kids. I want them to be disciples of their Lord and not puppets of man's expectations. I want them to love Jesus and His bride their entire life.

Lord, thank you for my kids!

Whiners or Solvers

2011-05-17T06:44:00.012-05:00

We all whine from time to time, though it’s a trait not worth bragging about. After seminary in 1988, I went to a church to serve as youth and education. After serving a couple of years, I resigned for reasons of burnout. Oddly enough, I would go back to pastor that church seven years later, but that’s another story all together. Post resignation as the youth guy, we joined a church on the other side of town and volunteered where we could. I served on the finance committee, served as a deacon, and taught a young adult group. Jo worked with children’s choir and sang in the adult choir. One year, there was no one to teach a preschool class – the class for our first child. We were approached with the argument parents of children ought to step up to the plate and teach. My reply argument was my kid is in that class, someone else should step up to the plate and serve. If you’ve been around volunteering in church, you’ve heard those types of responses – and many others. There are typically two types of parents in the preschool ministry – those who serve and those who want to be serve. Ashamedly, I was the later for a (short) while.

During this external debate and inward conflict, I had lunch with my parents one day and started my whining during the meal. Why can’t they find someone to teach a preschool class? Just because we have a kid in that class, there’s an expectation that parents step up to the plate? Parents need a break, right? I already serve and give – someone else needs to do this job. I must have spent fifteen minutes griping and whining about my predicament. But, what happened the next few moments caught me completely off guard. Instead of agreeing with me, my parents had a very different perspective. They first shared how they had hoped I hadn’t acted this way with fellow church members. The next words of the lecture can only be summarized as, “Grow up!” That’s right, quit your whining and do something about it.

I learned a valuable lesson that day as a young husband, father, and volunteer. There are two kinds of people in the world – whiners and solvers. We’re either one or the other. We either whine our way through life or decide to solve the dilemmas of life. By the way, Jo and I taught the preschool class. Each week we worked with 8 to 10 children two of which wore capes when they arrived each week - it was an interesting year. I chose to be a solver and quit my whining.

Are you doing any whining these days? Maybe it’s time to grow up? It’s definitely time to be a solver!

Do You Want a Companion or a Leader?

2011-05-11T10:45:00.005-05:00

I had this leadership thought reading through Numbers 14. You know the context; it’s the rebellion following the exodus. The people refused to enter the land due to overwhelming physical obstacles before them. Unable to recognize God’s presence and protection, they rejected the gift of the promise. In the midst of this rebellion you read these words recorded in Numbers 14:4, "And they said to one another, "Let us choose a leader and go back to Egypt."" The people not only reject God, they reject God’s called leader. Let us choose a companion to chaperone our return into slavery rather than choose a leader to take us into a God prescribed future. The mantra is awfully familiar in the church today. I’ve observed well meaning believers choose a companion rather than choose a leader. Can’t you hear it, “Let’s choose a person who’ll do what we want him or her to do!”

Why does this happen? I think our human nature desires control; let’s create a future confined to what we can see and what we can accomplish on our own. Our old nature doesn’t like the geography of dependence. I like being captain of my own ship! What’s familiar seems so palatable contrasted against the unknown. We like to utilize what’s in our grasp at the moment though often God’s plan requires surrender, risk, trust, dependence, and a whole lot of faith. We don’t need chaperones to guide us backwards; we need leaders who aren’t afraid of the giants and the imposing obstacles ahead. We need leaders who will unashamedly lead forward and people who will fearlessly walk with their leaders into a God created future. When tempted to entertain a companion, you’ve become too comfortable. Choose a leader since going backwards isn’t really the option.

Think about it – do you really want to go backwards? Really? Do you want to choose a companion or call a leader? A companion can take you back to once was but will never really be the same. Where's the freshness of the encounter in this? The leader can guide you into a God called future. Take the risk and trust! If history is an indictor, you're better off going forward than backward!

Disappointed: Wasatch Presbyterian Church and Rev. Scott Dalgarno

2011-05-09T08:11:00.003-05:00

Wasatch Presbyterian Church and their pastor in a misguided attempt at tolerance promoted Islam and the Qur’an recently. The church attempted to give away 90 copies of Islam’s “sacred” text. Within each Qur’an was an inserted bookmark that read, “This book was donated by the leaders of Wasatch Presbyterian Church who are not afraid of truth wherever it can be found." Truth? Wherever it can be found? The Wasatch bookmark suggests truth is found among the pages of the Qur’an. Really? This is an unacceptable tenet for a Christian. How does a Presbyterian church accept the Qur’an as a book of truth? Maybe it’s the same marginalized ideology the Methodists demonstrate in providing a Muslim Prayer Center in a Houston hospital? We are watching the dissolution of mainstream denominational christianity (lower case on purpose since Christ is no longer the head of the church). This whole tolerance argument is out of hand. Christians are losing their identity among and supporting the promoters of pagan gods. This new christian faith is simply a collage of feel-good tolerances void of God’s power and presence.

I am truly grieved by uniformed neo-theologians occupying pulpits. Do your homework ministers – be wise and beware! You cannot accept Islam as equal and valid to Christianity. To do so compromises your own faith – whatever that might be. Islam and her sacred writings do not support the deity of Christ, the sacrificial death and atonement, the bodily resurrection of Jesus, or salvation by grace through faith in Christ. Anything less is unchristian. Jesus is the only way – there is no other path and for any minister to suggest otherwise only serves to usher people to an eternal separation from God. Remember pastor, you are held accountable for every word you speak – speak well and speak truth.

Sometimes I Get So Disgusted

2011-05-06T21:34:00.005-05:00

Ever been disgusted – disappointed with someone or something? I get that way from time to time. Sometimes it’s at me and at other times it’s with someone or something else. Maybe it’s when my choleric and melancholy converge and overflow. But then, wisdom (patience) gets the best of me – since patience is wisdom.

Have you ever stopped to ponder the patience of God? How often must He be disappointed or disgusted with His creatures? Yet, God’s is patient as 2 Peter 3:9 reads, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” He is patient with the non-believer. He is patient with the believer. His grace and mercy demonstrated in his forbearance.

I look at the landscape asking, “What’s taking so long, Lord?” When is it enough? I see the willful disobedience and disregard for the things of God by a self-god culture. It’s the consuming selfishness of mankind – a glimpse into depravity. I see a world chasing after gods, yet ignoring or rejecting the one true God. Then when you look at the church, it’s not much better. Portrayed weekly - blatant hypocrisy and disregard for the gospel. People, who know better, yet choose less than a surrendered abandonment to Jesus. We ought to always live in the shadow of the cross. Unfortunately, religion lives in the shadow of self becoming the force of opinions – the war of ideologies and generations.

After I’ve had my season of disgust with others, to be fair, I must look at myself. Am I surrendered? Am I abandoned? Am I living in the shadow of the cross? Am I completely dependent on Jesus? Have I repented? Have I allowed God to search my heart and identify those things which displease Him? Have I rejected self? Have I chosen to identify with Him? All of a sudden, I can’t point fingers in disgust, but am compelled to view others and their situations through His eyes - with a broken heart. My heart aches for this field in which I serve – for the churches and community both. I long for a city which truly lives in the shadow of the cross.

Where do you reside?

On Osama bin Ladin, Hell, and Urgency

2011-05-02T20:44:00.004-05:00

I remember the morning of September 11, 2001. A television set in the church reception area caught me off guard as I arrived to work. We watched in amazement – horrified as the planes crashed into the World Trade Center. Then President Bush was visiting a school to promote literacy in Sarasota, Florida (about an hour from us at the time). Our nation changed that day and it would never be the same. We thought ourselves safe and even removed from terrorism and radical extremists. A false sense of national security left us unguarded. Diabolical men took advantage of our unpreparedness planning these incredulous attacks months in advance. We were left in shock. So many dead and a surreal devastation left us questioning the next steps both from the terrorists and those charged with our national security.

Over time, the anguish of the moments surrounding September 11 waned. I remember how full our worship services were in the weeks that followed the attacks. As a normalcy returned to most, people went on with their lives the best they could. When I heard the name Osama bin Laden spoken in the context of having earlier been killed, several thoughts rushed to mind. Were they sure it was him and what proof did they have? As a listened to the reports, sources seemed fairly certain this was Osama bin Laden. My second thought, great sorrow for the families that had suffered at the plans of this man washed over me once again. Thousands died as a result of this terrorist’s work. Then oddly enough, I actually felt sorry for this tormented and hated man. At the news of his death, I couldn’t cheer his demise for the cause did not die with him. But at this moment, I felt sorry for a man who lived his life for worthless hate. Hate was his God. He bought the lie of Islam and chose to live as a radical Muslim. This is one man who did not know Jesus Christ as Messiah, Savior, Redeemer, and Lord. Bin Laden caused much bloodshed, yet he didn’t know the one who had shed His blood for him. What a pitiful and devastating picture! I am convinced that Osama bin Laden agonizes this very moment in Hell. He resides in eternal anguish not because of what he did but because of the one he refused to believe.

The subject of Hell has been in the press a lot these months. Rob Bell’s new book Love Wins trivialized the reality of Hell. Bell strives to reconcile Hell’s existence with God’s mercy. Unfortunately his trivialization leads down a heretical path. Hell is real, not just a grave or temporary home. It doesn’t exist for a season, but for eternity. God’s incredible mercy and grace are demonstrated in Christ. God’s mercy is this – Christ died for us. God never sends any human to Hell, man chooses his own destination. By choosing another god, you choose Hell. The stark reality of Hell ought to spur every believer to become a greater witness for God’s story of redemption – both in word and action. We are to be tellers of God’s story, but also demonstrators of God’s story in us. It’s time to wage war against Hell; it needs no more occupants! This is the urgency.

On Pastoral Spirituality

2011-04-23T13:53:00.005-05:00

At 47, I’ve pastored four congregations each unique, challenging, and fulfilling. Since the late nineties, I’ve walked with a number of pastors who faced debilitating ministry circumstances and even co-authored a book on clergy self-care strategies. Over the years, I’ve learned some things about pastoral spirituality and formation. Better yet, I continue to learn and gain insight into formation practices – never satisfied with one’s condition.

I’ve learned the importance of separating the person from the profession. That might sound a little odd, but let me explain. While I study, pray, and prepare for proclamation to the public audience, I must also study, pray, and prepare for self. These are two very distinct and separate activities requiring my attention. I study both to be and to proclaim. Regardless of my ministry calling, I’m His and in desperate need of intimacy with Him. Not only must I grow in my understanding and presentation, I must grow in my being. If I’m not connected in a vibrant, growing, and maturing relationship with Christ, my public ministry suffers. Those who substitute public study for personal study are easy to spot. They are third person instructors rather than first person witnesses. Your being overflows into your professional, not the other way around. Here’s what I’ve learned: I’m more effective when I keep my personal devotion separate from my public study. The two need not be combined. Regardless of my professional responsibility, I have a personal responsibility in my relationship with Christ and I must hear from Him regarding my own being.

Here are a few thoughts I’ve found helpful to facilitate this process:

Find a space away from the office to spend time with God through reading, study, contemplation, prayer, and meditation. Find locations for spiritual formation away from the church office. It helps to draw the line between personal and professional.
Follow a Bible reading plan that’s just for you. Read it away from the office.
Create a journal either electronic or notebook to record the things God brings to mind about your relationships, calling, condition, plans, and future. Use this document to reflect upon personal growth moments and seasons. Write and read away from the office.
Read a book that’s only for you at the moment. God may use the content to bring to mind illustrations and messages in the future, but don’t read the book for that purpose – read for you. Read from your favorite chair or space away from the office.
Keep a separate prayer list from church and member needs. Pray through this list daily, update it regularly, and seek God’s word for answers. Pray away from the office.
Dream, pray, and vision about your purpose and your calling on regular basis away from the building where walls confine. What is God doing, teaching, and revealing about your pursuit of His will for life? Do this away from the office.

Remember, your ministry doesn’t define you, Christ does. Intimacy with Him doesn’t exist because of your profession, it should be demonstrated because you are His regardless of your professional calling.

Enjoy Your Easter Freedom This Year...

2011-04-22T13:03:00.004-05:00

... it could be your last. Our freedoms in America are staggering in contrast with other nations. Most (if not all) Christians will worship unhindered by fear in America this Easter. We (residents in Baytown) won’t worry this Easter at least. This is not the case among believers in other nations. According to a Reuters, Pakistan’s Christians are making low-key Easter preparations fearful of potential retribution. Pakistan believers remember too many vicious attacks by intolerant Muslims. Under Pakistani law it is illegal to speak against Islam or its prophet Mohammad. Tolerance is a myth in Islamic dominated Pakistan - you cannot worship Jesus in freedom or security. Just remember, there is no Christian religious freedom under Islamic dominance.

In America, we are only as free as the motivated voter. While a constitutional amendment limiting religious freedom appears less than probable to many, it is not impossible to say the least. At the end of the day, the cause with the most votes wins. Mathematically, it’s not too far fetched and a capable state strategy mapped and enacted in my lifetime has serious potential. Look internationally as democracy and freedoms are jeopardized under Islamization. Islam is unwittingly fostered by hate crime legislation, which supports propagation.

Enjoy your freedom this Easter. With each successive year, Christian freedoms are encroached upon by Islamization. The desensitized Christian and the inoculated irreligious become Islam’s friend, yet their shortsightedness is blindness to the bigger picture. Unless the Christian church wakes up, our days of unhindered Easter celebrations are numbered.

Here’s my reality. If I speak out, I’m branded as intolerant. If I’m unwilling to accept Islam’s position as equally valid as mine and promote it as such, I’m intolerant. So my personal freedom is limited to the Islamist’s viewpoint and I’m intolerant if I disagree. Then, let me be intolerant! I am a man of conviction – a disciple of unwavering compromise. I believe and thus I stand. When Christ called me unto Himself, He called me to be separate unto Him. If I accept the beliefs of another as equal and valid as the Christian faith, I cannot believe in Christ alone for salvation. If I believe there is another way other than Christ, I can’t really be a Christian. He is either the way, the truth, and the life – the only way to the Father – or He isn’t. You can't have it both ways. The Christian isn’t called to tolerance, but to disciple making. Jesus is the way, not Mohammad, Allah, or Islam.

Scripture and Its Purpose

2011-04-14T21:35:00.004-05:00

God’s word is true, unique, inspired, intentional, and without error. It was never intended to contain every story, just the ones God designed for it to hold. The stories are told for one reason, to draw us to the person of Christ. As you read through the pages, you discover Jesus in both the Old and New Testaments. John specifically identifies the purpose of Scripture in the twentieth chapter of his book. You read in verse thirty and thirty-one, “30 Jesus did many other miraculous signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. 31 But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.”

Jesus did many miracles. More than we read about or even know about. He was the true miracle worker. He healed, fed, loved, rebuked, encouraged, taught, saved, and revealed. His purpose was to do his Father’s will. His Father’s will was to reconcile a fallen, depraved, hurting, and stinking world unto Himself. The stories God included in His book were for those who wouldn’t see or experience the earthly ministry of Christ. God chose these stories for us to hear – those of us who would never walk up to Jerusalem with Jesus, sit by the lakeside and hear the emphatic inflection of wisdom speak, or to know the physical touch of His hands as He washed our feet. God gave you His book to reveal the work of His Son for you. He wrote it so you would believe (think to be true) and trust in Jesus – believing He is the Christ (the Messiah). God wrote this book to introduce you to His loved Son. From the moment of creation in Genesis, God wants you to meet His Son Jesus. All of History points to this Jesus, the One by which all of history is to be interpreted.

God’s purpose of redemption is realized in the work of His Son. It is by believing, trusting, placing one’s faith and life into Christ Jesus that we experience the being of real life. This real life takes hold and possession of us when we are in Christ. It is a radical, separate, and different life. When we believe in His name, we believe in His authority, person, work, and reputation. When you believe in this Son you have life. This is the reason God wrote this incredible book and included these hand chosen stories – breathed from God Himself to all present day readers and future readers. He wrote this book to draw your attention to His Son. It’s the purpose of Scripture – God’s introduction.

Never be ashamed of the book God gave you. Read it, memorize it, treasure it, and share it. Know the stories, tell the stories, and teach the stories. God has called ever believer to be a disciple maker, so make disciples. If God gave you this book for the purpose of introducing you to His Son, use it to introduce others to Jesus.

The Time for Repentance is Now - Pray

2011-04-12T17:49:00.004-05:00

It is time to repent! The moment is now. God is searching for a place to move and work. Yet, He will not visit upon an unclean, unconfessed, and unrepentant people. It’s time now to confess! What’s standing in the way of God working where you are right now? What sin remnant is lingering? It’s time to come clean, repent, and seek the Lord. Don’t delay and deny this essential action in your life right now. Come clean now – know freedom, purpose, and a re-orientated heart for this awesome Redeemer. What might your prayer of repentance read like? Would it resemble this?

God,

I bow before you broken, ashamed, hurting, burdened, and sick. My soul’s anguish consuming; I desire you. I recognize the rent - restore my God, restore the passion for righteousness, a zealousness for ONLY You – your will, your plan, and your purpose. I confess my sin – I REPENT! Turning, I run to you. With each step of every giant stride I’m painfully aware of my unrighteousness and need of you. I am undone!

Lord, I confess my sin – it’s far too great a burden. I confess the sin of loving the created more than the creator – the valuing of the “things” of this world more than valuing You. It’s the stuff of life preoccupying mind, thought, attention, and priorities. I confess misplaced priorities and confess to allowing things to steal my time away from you and from serving you. You called me to be peculiar and to be separate unto You. Yet, Lord I’ve allowed the things of culture and context to stain. Father, wash the stink of the common away. I do not want to identify with the world, but with You and You ONLY. I confess pride, ego, and broken relationships. Restore, these Lord, I beg! I confess the sin of comfort – the seeking of comfortable and the desiring of comfort rather than sacrifice. Jesus, you willingly sacrificed. Lord, I surrender – all. I, Repent!

Lord, I confess the sin of political correctness. In an effort not to offend someone, I’ve offended you. The one True God, I have offended. Father, I desire to stand for truth, unashamed to proclaim. I know truth offends and yet you’ve called me to live, teach, and share truth. I confess the tolerance of other gods – possessions, relationships, and stuff. I confess a tolerance for heretical doctrine. And Lord, I confess the tolerance of false religions such as Islam, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Mormonism, Unitarianism, Hinduism, and the like. You called your people not to tolerate false gods and faiths! You called your faith family to be uniquely separate unto you. Lord, instill a passion in me for those trapped and held in bondage by false faiths. Instill in me the desire to share the true story of freedom, redemption, and hope. Empower me to live the gospel unashamed and uncompromisingly. I, Repent!

Father, I confess the luke-warm temperature, the sin of believelessness, and the dumbing down of faith. I confess the sin of complacency. Let my heart ache over confessed belief unlived and undemonstrated. I confess the sin of discounting potential. I confess the sin of audiencing negativity. I confess the sin of trusting partially in self rather than trusting completely in you. I want to burn for you – let this life blaze with a passion for the gospel, for truth, and for You! Renew this heart, mind, and soul this very moment. Allow my gaze to see things as you see them. Let me not see the condition of the exterior, but the condition of the soul. Let me weep for the lost, break this heart that it would be passionate for you. Let me weep over my own unrighteousness and that of others too. Lord, I Repent!

Jesus, I believe you are coming soon. Let everyday of my life reflect the urgency of your appearing. I love you Jesus! For I beg these things in Your Name! Amen.

Regarding Methods and Madness - Part 1

2011-04-11T18:11:00.003-05:00

Culture defines model. Understanding culture is essential to effectiveness. Church context is often irrelevant to community context. The culture within doesn’t necessary relate to the culture without. And to some degree, both should be different. The church is called to be separate. Yet, the methods we often embrace to relate just don’t. Not only have I come to this belief personally, so has the congregation I pastor. While there are still a few dissenters to the obvious, we are intentionally shifting from an attractional or event driven model to a relational and connecting (missional) model.

For years, even prior to my arrival, we’ve embraced whole heartedly an attractional/event driven model. And to tell you the truth, we did it well. We know how to throw a party! Yet, the obvious comes up over and over again; we weren’t feeling the “stick” from the events. Even with follow-up and next step strategies, it just wasn’t working. I’m very aware that attractional or event driven models work well in certain context, just not in ours. Something had to give, a change was essential. We could keep doing the same thing over and over again hoping for different results, but that’s insanity – at least I’ve read. If we want different results, we need a different model.

We did some homework. Through research it became blatantly obvious that the number one reason people were drawn to this church – relationships. Friendships were the reason people were drawn to this congregation. The events or attractional stuff was the least of the reasons why people were drawn. It didn’t take much to surmise, our context requires an intentional missional approach – living (being) the gospel in our homes, neighborhoods, workplace, and schools. We’re putting our eggs into the connecting or relational basket.

Here’s the deal, we’re not trying to attract through events, we’re trying to relate through life. It’s a huge change or shift from the model we’ve all learned to work and for some love. It’s comfortable and in the box, yet it doesn’t relate either to context or culture. So what does the immediate change look like? We’ve cancelled or put on hold all “big” events for the next twelve months. I bet you're wondering which big event or "sacred cow" was put on the altar. I’ll tell you more in the next post.

On Budgets, Planned Parenthood, and NPR

2011-04-09T16:30:00.003-05:00

Well, the government didn’t shut down yesterday. The politics of the last week shed light on some meaningful discussions. For example, the federal government must curb its spending habits. It’s a process that won’t come easy. The difference between income and expense is staggering and solvency can’t be maintained at the rate we’re going. You may dismiss my comments as a minister, but I do have an undergraduate degree in business. I’ve been a small business owner and know full well the responsibility of making a weekly payroll. I know what it’s like to make money and unfortunately, I know what it’s like to lose it too. I have to say; I like making it more than I like losing it.

Here’s my concern. We will be forced to cut programming that some think essential. But, in reality it’s not and we will learn to live without it. We’ve gotten accustom to habits of a lapsed era. Take NPR (National Public Radio) for example. Why does the federal government subsidize radio and television programming? In a media driven culture, why do we spend good tax dollars on this organization? The argument for media dissemination in rural contexts isn’t sufficient. NPR is a liberal biased opinionated institution and not a neutral reporting agency. Why would our government support such a beast? Defund NPR and let them go out like every other non-profit and solicit funding from the private and corporate sector and learn to be answerable to your donors. If you can’t find sufficient support in the private sector, maybe your mission isn’t on target with the public interest. NPR might be a nice thing to some people, but it’s not a funding necessity. You just can’t justify the expense. This media is not essential to the welfare of the nation nor does it really serve the public (at large) interest.

Planned Parenthood is another organization that is subsidized with federal dollars. Why is that? Planned Parenthood promotes a liberal political agenda and a morally diminishing standard throughout communities across this nation. My tax dollars are going to support practices in conflict with moral standards I espouse. People like myself had to go out and create privately supported non-profits such as pregnancy resource centers to encourage healthier standards. Because we value life, we made the investment from our own wallets. Here’s my case, defund Planned Parenthood. If you can’t make it soliciting funds through the private and corporate sector, then perhaps you’re not serving the public interest. Do what everyone else has to do by attracting a donor base and then become accountable to your donors. This organization isn’t essential to the welfare of our nation nor does it really serve the pubic (at large) interest.

If our country is going to survive these difficult economic times, we must address the elephants in the room. We can’t afford programming like NPR or Planned Parenthood. You and others may not like it, but it’s the stark reality of economics. If the private sector won’t support it, maybe that’s a good indication the government should not either.

On Terry Jones, Hypocrisy, Justification, and Truth

2011-04-02T09:06:00.010-05:00

Qur’an burning is back in the news thanks to Terry Jones. It wasn’t just a threat this time; he actually followed through. Jones held a mock trial and found the Qur’an a book of hate and violence. He burned a single Qur’an. According to ABC News, a violent protest at a United Nations compound in Afghanistan was the result leaving 11 dead. Jones and his buddies were left to blame. While I don’t support Jones’ actions, I do agree with his observation. He stated the whole scenario just proves his point about radical Islam.

Since when does burning a book (sacred text or not) equate to the taking a life? Here’s the difference. In the west, we place a higher value on life. Life is valued in Christianity. In the east, life is valued less. The concept of “human rights” does not exist in Islam. You have no right therefore you have no value. Life in the east is not valued to the high degree it is in the west.

Islam is a religion of hypocrisy. Muslims burned Bibles in Islamabad and Gaza City recently. How is it that Muslims can burn Bibles and Christians can’t burn Qur’ans? Why is it okay for one and not for the other? Did Christians go out killing Muslims as a result? Islam calls for tolerance from other world faiths, yet they are unwilling to demonstrate such respect. Islam’s goal is not to accept Christians or Jews; it is to eradicate the world of them or enslave them. This is what the Qur’an teaches.

When did we start validating inappropriate behavior as justifiable? Every human being is responsible for their behavior. Those who seek to respond inappropriately as a result should be held responsible for their behavior regardless. Humans have a choice as to how they respond. Terry Jones is in no way responsible for the Islamist response in Afghanistan. Placing blames is only a poor effort in justification. The protestors had a choice and are solely responsible for their actions. I believe it is ludicrous as best to pin that one on Jones. The perpetrators must take responsibility!

If you live in America, follow the surge of anti-Islamic rhetoric coming out of Europe. The reasons are valid. European culture is eroding due to Islam’s influence. Islam is not a religion of peace. Anyone who would think otherwise hasn’t done the research.

About the Pastor's Wife...

2011-03-25T17:44:00.004-05:00

Mark Driscoll did a post on loving the pastor’s wife earlier in the week. Reading through his article generated some thoughts of my own as it pertains to the wife of a pastor.

I have been extremely blessed with a wonderful mate for life. We married right out of college and will celebrate 26 years this summer. We honeymooned in a U-Haul trailer (with all of our earthly possessions) as we traveled from Orlando, Florida to Fort Worth, Texas to begin a seminary experience at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Whether as the spouse of a minister or the spouse of an active church member, she has always served well.

I firmly believe the pastor’s wife deserves to be awarded the volunteer of the year award. She does an amazing amount of work behind the scenes that often goes unnoticed by her family and church. Here are some of the unique facets of the "volunteer" job.

The pastor’s wife:

Must often serve in ministry areas outside of her giftedness and passion in order to make things work and work well. She picks up the slack well.

Must often be mute or silent on subjects of controversy or sensitive issues. She’s not often able to speak honestly or address personal or congregational issues for fear of reprisal or repercussion. Sometimes it is hard to stand by your spouse in silence. I’ve never met a pastor’s wife that didn’t want to tell off a few folks in the church, but didn’t want to cause trouble for her husband.

Must appear to have it all together, be on time, and be dressed appropriately. People will talk about her wardrobe choices regardless.

Must keep the children in line on Sundays, Wednesdays, and at other church activities. She will have little to no help from her husband due to his congregational responsibilities, but must get everyone to where they are suppose to be and when they are suppose to be there.

Must “put up” her husband’s long hours, ministry demands, and time away from home including the many emergencies that crop up during the evenings and weekends that take him away from planned and unplanned family activities. She must share graciously.

Must be strong and independent if she is going to survive and thrive.

Must possess a similar calling to ministry like that of her husband. A woman called to serve, as a pastor’s wife is one who will survive the darker days of ministry. She will love the church like her husband loves the church. She will be on mission as her husband is on mission because she understands the call.

Must be comfortable living in a fish bowl. Her life, decisions, comments, attendance, actions, and family are always on display for comment and judgment.

These are just a few of the “musts” for a pastor’s wife. A complete list could go on for pages. I’m proud of this pastor’s wife. She serves well with passion, integrity, and purpose. She is beautiful on the outside as well as the inside – a heart of gold. Best of all, she puts up with me! What a great wife!

Do We Have Free Will in Heaven?

2011-03-15T14:30:00.002-05:00

I was recently asked this question, “Is there free will in heaven?” It caused me to ponder. We speak often of the benefits, worship, glory, and surroundings of heaven. Scripture speaks often about these. Yet, when it comes to the question of choice, the answer is not so easily found. Admittedly, one’s theological perspective shapes one’s response. How do I answer this question? I believe God’s created will have free will in heaven. Free will is present, but capacity to sin is lost. While there is no specific verse supporting or contradicting this position, one’s answer must be determined from theological frameworks and various interpretations. Since I fall in the middle of Tiessen’s (Providence and Prayer) spectrum as a Redemptive Interventionist, I err on the side of freedom (as part of my theological framework). Since we understand by God’s word and experience such concepts of justification and sanctification. It’s the glorification component that is yet to be fully experienced and known.

God created man with the ability to exercise free will.
Free choice has its consequences.
Having freedom to choose doesn’t indicate a willingness or wantonness to choose sin.
The option to sin isn’t a choice in heaven since there is no sin in heaven. We are free to choose, but do not have the capacity to sin. We choose obedience.
Therefore we don’t lose our freedom to choose, just our capacity to sin.

3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4 He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” 5 He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” … 27 Nothing impure will ever enter it, nor will anyone who does what is shameful or deceitful, but only those whose names are written in the Lamb’s book of life. Revelation 21:3-5, 27

30 By myself I can do nothing; I judge only as I hear, and my judgment is just, for I seek not to please myself but him who sent me. John 5:30

4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. 5 If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection. 6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin— 7 because anyone who has died has been freed from sin. Romans 6:4-7

Another Congressman Just Doesn't Get It... Surprised?

2011-03-10T16:53:00.007-06:00

With all due respect, I was appalled at a Texas congressman’s behavior during the hearing today. I recognize the subject of radical Islam is a polarizing conversation, but to identify the KKK as similar to/with radical Islam is preposterous and demonstrates a severe lack of competency regarding the doctrinal and political ramifications of radical Islam. Radical Islam’s toll on American culture is staggering. Life has changed for all of us, never to be the same again and radical Islam is the culprit. The KKK cannot contextually justify their supremacy positions in Scripture, but radical Islam can more than justify their position in the Qur’an. This hearing is about radical Islam and not the KKK. Why confuse the issue? The congressman’s remarks only demonstrate a severe lack of competency regarding extremely important religious-political issues. My hope is that the Washington Post misquoted the congressman’s tirade in its live blog commentary recounting the major conversations in the hearing. Just so you can read it for yourself, I’ve included the text from the Washington Post Live Blog. I expect more from a Texas congressman!

*** Taken from the Washington Post Live Blog ***

Four hours into the hearing, the third panel of speakers began. The speakers included three lawmakers: Rep. Andre Carson (D-Ind.), one of two Muslims currently serving in Congress; Rep. Scott Rigell (R-Va.); and Rep. Al Green (D-Texas).

Carson asked Los Angeles County Sheriff Leroy Baca for any suggestions he might have on how the committee "might better structure procedures to protect civil rights while maintaining effectiveness" in dealing with Islamic extremism. Baca responded that he believed in "bias-free policing" and "public-trust policing," adding, "I don't believe you can judge one Muslim for the acts of another."

A few moments later, Green spoke, getting to the heart of many of the Democratic objections to the hearing. Wielding a copy of the Constitution, Green read from the First Amendment, which states that "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof."

"It is the first of the first," Green said. "The first. And I want you to know not only do I love America, I love the American people. ... And because I love the American people, I want to say in clear and precise terms: I have no problem with discussing terrorist organizations which are rooted in religion, which is why I want to discuss the KKK." Green went on to note that the KKK "requires that its members profess a belief in Jesus Christ. The KKK says that the Christian faith is the white man's religion. The KKK says that Jews are people of the Antichrist. The KKK wants to preserve the true gospel, the gospel of the white man's religion."

Green's point, he said, was that "it is not enough for things to be right; they must also look right." "Why not include the KKK in this discussion today?" he asked, raising his voice. "Why not have a broader topic that does not focus on one religion? It doesn't look right ... when we focus on one religion to the exclusion of others. That's the point being made."

Green was countered by one of the witnesses, Melvin Bledsoe, whose son converted to Islam and became a radical in Yemen. "Today we are not talking at this hearing about KKK," Bledsoe said. "We're talking about extremist Islam, radicalization of American citizens. And I hope you get that day that you can be back in this hearing room. That's my hope."

Green also sparred with Rep. Tom Marino (R-Pa.), who took issue with the notion of including the KKK in Thursday's hearing. "You have not suffered a cross-burning," Green said to Marino as Rep. Peter King (R-N.Y.), the committee chairman, banged his gavel several times, demanding order.

http://voices.washingtonpost.com/2chambers/2011/03/the_peter_king_hearings_on_rad.html?sid=ST2011031002070

updated: 2011-03-16 (Washington Post incorrectly identified Gene Green for Al Green who as actually at the hearing both Democrats from Texas.)

On the Bizarre Behavior of Charlie Sheen

2011-03-02T07:50:00.003-06:00

Did you see the 20/20 interview with Charlie Sheen? Have to admit, after seeing a few of the teaser clips, I caught the hype and viewed it while following Twitter to see his brother trending too. At the end of the day, I was deeply saddened. Here’s a guy with every opportunity and yet he’s wasted it. I guess you and I are one of those “boring” people who watch his craziness from the sidelines as he crashes and burns. Charlie Sheen is another Hollywood statistic. But, before we see the good out of this scenario, he must take responsibility for his depraved and spent life. His narcissistic behavior is leading the heat on a course toward self destruction. He’s not hit bottom yet, but it can’t be too far away. Do you blame his publicist for quitting yesterday? How much damage control can you do after the 20/20 interview? The only winner last night was the network with a well watch episode.

If the bizarre behavior demonstrated during the interview is any indication of Sheen’s real life, it’s a very, very, very sad tale. If he really wants to make breakthroughs to enjoy what’s left of his life, he needs outside intervention and help. Sheen removed himself from any accountable relationships while maintaining unhealthy relationships which only fuel inappropriate behavior. The interview last night screamed of self-absorption and self-centeredness. It was all about Charlie, his view of others, and his using of people and things. What I saw last night was not an addict in recovery but a man unwilling to look reality in the face and deal with his problems. If you believed his story last night, you bought a lie. Addiction is an animal that can’t be tamed on one’s own. He sought to justify his inappropriate behavior. Charlie Sheen showed no remorse, repentance, or shame for his self-centered and inappropriate actions.

I hope the network makes good on their decision to end the show or at least replace Charlie’s character with a more responsible actor. If Charlie Sheen decided to change, he could do an incredible amount of good. On his present course, he doesn’t need to be on the stage as he crashes and burns.

Are You Willing to Compromise Your Integrity?

2011-02-17T22:07:00.009-06:00

I want for you to read this statement:

"When the church has a position that many people do not hold, and those people are in leadership or desire to be in leadership, they have to make compromises with their own integrity." - Bishop Sharon Rader

Do you catch that? It's not made up! I had to re-read the statement after I picked myself up off the floor! This is a retired bishop from a mainline denomination. Homosexuality is the subject; the context is the Church’s position. Rader made the statement following a conversation she had with a seminarian who felt ostracized from professional ministry due to their sexual orientation and practice. The bishop and other retired leaders are advocates for changing in the church’s position on homosexuality.

While I have a position on the subject, the greatest concern here is not with homosexuality, but with the decision making philosophy demonstrated by the bishop. According to Rader, if a position held by the church is culturally unpopular (regardless of Biblical narrative), you must abandon your conviction and go with the cultural tide. By all means, don’t hold to a conviction, especially when it’s politically incorrect! Where is the real wisdom in this? Rader advocates compromising one’s personal integrity so as to not appear judgmental. Her statement supports the dilution of conviction. Without conviction, there is no faith. Without truth, there is no foundation – there no worship. Pull off the robes and call off church, God long left the room which is void of turth.

Truth is truth regardless of its (un)popularity. How can someone schooled in Biblical teaching advocate compromising one’s integrity when a position is unpopular? Christianity isn’t called to conform to the culture; we’re called to engage the culture. Those who went before us died for what they believed. Conviction was all they had at times. We’ve never been called to compromise truth, but to be the light and banner for truth. I’m concerned that Christian leaders are demonstrating inappropriate decision making processes void of conviction. I’m concerned that a Christian leader would advocate compromising your personal integrity for the sake of popularity. What a tragic example!

Where are the men and women who live by conviction who are unwilling to compromise the truth of Scripture? Where are the men and women who are willing to go against the grain of the culture? Where are the men and women who hold to truth unwaveringly? These are the men and women God is looking for to do His will.

“Integrity is not a conditional word. It doesn't blow in the wind or change with the weather. It is your inner image of yourself, and if you look in there and see a man who won't cheat, then you know he never will.” - John D. McDonald

"Character is higher than intellect." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Getting a Grasp on Life

2011-02-16T09:42:00.003-06:00

Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.

1Timothy 4:16

Pastoring is a big job; it’s certainly not for wimps. Statistically, clergy are dropping by the wayside in unprecedented numbers. The hours, stress, expectations, and challenges are demanding and draining. Perhaps one of the more amazing statistics claim only one in ten currently in ministry will retire from some sort of ministry. In theory, if that statistic proves true, nine out of ten who begin in ministry will not finish in ministry. How true is this statistic? If you’re in ministry, when was the last time you gave serious contemplation to quitting?

As I thought about this number, I remembered Paul’s commendation to Timothy. In 1 Timothy 4:16 it states, “Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.” This is solid advice from a seasoned ministry profession. Paul told Timothy to keep hold (a good watch) on two areas of his life. First, Timothy was to watch himself or rather his lifestyle and expression of faith. Second, he was to watch closely his teaching and doctrine. He was to be a serious student and professor of truth. If we’re to finish well, keeping a close guard on self and truth is essential. We fail due to lapses in these two aspects of life.

Paul’s continued instruction to Timothy was to persevere in them – both life and truth. The picture presented through perseverance and persistence is never allowing either of them to get beyond an arm’s length away. We are to persistently guard these areas of life. At the church where I serve, we sponsor an Upward Basketball League. I’ve coached for a number of years. Regardless of where you are in the timeline of the season, I find myself reminding my boys, “Get with your man!” The rule states to stay within an arm’s length away from the man you’re defending. If you don’t keep up with your man, you’ll get scored on nearly every time. Don’t let your life or your doctrine get beyond an arm’s length away from you.

Here’s the promise. If you’ll keep a close watch on your life and doctrine and never allow them to get beyond an arm’s length away, you’ll save (keep out of trouble) or rescue both yourself and those you influence. You help others guard their life, live right, and develop sound doctrinal truth by the way you live. While this is a fine encouragement for any clergy, its application lives far beyond the ministry professional. Any influencer is wise to heed Paul’s instruction.

Learning from Mansfield Independent School District

2011-02-09T10:04:00.005-06:00

Mansfield Independent School District hit the spotlight in a big way this week. The small district outside of the Dallas/Fort Worth area is one of five recipients of a Foreign Language Assistance Program (FLAP) grant to teach the Arabic language from the Department of Education. According to the federal government, Arabic is a “critical language.” Parents and residents caused an uproar regarding the mandatory instruction in specific grade levels. Mansfield ISD denies the mandatory instruction yet, “As part of language acquisition and development, the early grades would have elements of Arabic language within the framework of the state-mandated curriculum.”[1] Regardless of the explanation, elements of the Arabic language and culture will be taught to all children. This is both alarming and disappointing to me.

I have some thoughts about this Arabic FLAP grant:

It is difficult, if not nearly impossible, to teach modern Arabic without the inclusion of Islam’s teachings. If we are going to tout the Church and State argument every time a Christian group wants to meet on a campus or when the proponents of Judeo-Christian ethics, beliefs, or creationist’s promote their theories and positions, Islam should be treated in the same fashion. What's fair is fair, right? Christians must take a stand against the inclusion of Islamic teachings in our public schools. With large Islamic populations in both the Houston and Dallas/Fort Worth areas, Christians must remain vigilant to the ever-increasing attempts to promote Islam through mainstreaming opportunities.

Then there is the whole fiscal policy discussion. When the federal government is going bankrupt and leading us down a path to national insolvency, how can we dish out millions of dollars in language grants? This is a fiscal responsibility issue. We need a balanced budget NOW! Stop spending money you don’t have! We’re cutting basic instruction, but adding in Arabic language and culture studies? Federal spending is out of control! Somewhere at sometime someone needs to stand up and say enough! These are the programs that must be eliminated from our budgets. We can’t afford them either financially or intellectually. I vote for eliminating half of the bureaucracy in the Department of Education today; education is a state right!

Hooray for the parents in the Mansfield ISD. Had you not spoken up, the original curriculum outline would have made it to your classrooms. Because of your awareness and involvement, you significantly curtailed the program’s influence. Don’t give up yet, there’s still much to be done.

As an educated person, I promote giving kids varied opportunities to learn. Learning about various cultures, languages, and historical movements is important. When it comes to Islam, I am very aware and knowledgeable regarding the tactics and motives to promote tolerance towards Islam. When you know what I know, you understand Islam’s agenda. You must be wise. I find it appalling that we'd even consider teaching Islam under the guise of an Arabic language and culture curriculum in our schools. I wonder how many followers of Allah work in the Department of Education?

[1] http://www.mansfieldisd.org/departments/communications/news/10-11/february/arabicgrant.htm. Accessed 2011-02-08

These Things I Know...

2011-02-02T17:01:00.004-06:00

Here are some random thoughts pertaining to spiritual truths that have been churning around in my mind these past couple of day. Thought I'd share them as a whole rather than in separate posts.

1. Make decisions based upon what you know rather than how you feel.

2 Timothy 1:12, “That is why I am suffering as I am. Yet I am not ashamed, because I know who I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day.”

I John 5:13, “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.”

Even though God made us emotional beings, feelings can often be deceptive. Sometimes I think the enemy uses our feelings to remove the wind from our sails. When we make decisions based on momentary feelings, we’re basing our decision process on a whim. Feelings come and go, increase and subside, and can be either negative or positive. These feelings can change at a moments notice. You can be angry one moment and happy the next. Why do you think we’re told in Scripture not to let the sun go down on our anger? Or why does James tell us that anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desire for us. It’s because making a decision based on emotions or feelings can lead us down a destructive path. Well then, how you make decisions? You make a decision based upon what you know. What does God’s word say about the decision that needs to be made? Know the truth and the truth will set you free to make the right decision. Live out of what you know rather than out of how you feel. You’ll make better decisions and see better results.

2. Give your best.

Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.”

Mark 12:43, “Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, ‘I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, gave out of her poverty, put in everything – all she had to live on.”

Do your best in all that you do. You are working for the Lord and not for men. Don’t worry about whether your best is equal to the task. There will always be someone else more talented or smarter than you, don’t let that stall your effort or work. You just do your best. I’m reminded of the widow who gave the two mites. Many others before her had and gave more than she did. Yet Jesus noticed her offering above the others. Why? She gave her all, her best, and her everything. Because you’re working for the Lord, just give your best.

3. Serve rather than be served.

Matthew 20:28, “Just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

It is truly better to give than receive. You are blessed through giving. It’s as if we reach our potential in service. As followers of Christ, we pattern our lives after the one we follow. Jesus came to serve. He came to die and give His life away for others. At times I find it peculiar, this Christ was most at home in serving. He seemed to shy away from being served. Even to the point of washing the feet of his pupils. Christ’s example of service shapes and even defines the follower’s life.

4. Faith is to be lived.

James 1:22, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourself. Do what it say.”

James 2:18, “But someone will say, ‘you have faith; I have deeds.’ Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do.”

Faith is demonstrated in life. Our faith is not private, but meant to be lived. Don’t just listen and do nothing, live it. People know your faith not by the words that flow out of your mouth, but by the way you live. Your life is your billboard. Jesus is glorified in a life lived well and faith demonstrated abundantly. As I read through Scripture, I notice Christ followers who live a demonstrated life of faith. No more closet Christianity. Let people witness the gospel lived out in you.

5. No matter how you slice it, Jesus is the only way.

John 14:6, “Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

I’m not sure you can be Christ follower and believe there are other ways to Heaven’s eternal life. If you take Scripture to be God’s authoritative word, you must believe it to be true. If Jesus says He’s the only way, then He’s the only way. Any belief contrary to this truth stands in opposition to Jesus’ words and Scripture. To follow Jesus you must believe He’s not only a way, but He’s the only way. You must believe the one you follow. There is no other redeemer other than Jesus. If you don’t believe He’s the only way, yet claim to follow Him, then how can you follow a liar? By disregarding Jesus only, you make Him out to be a liar. Why would you follow this man? Remember that Jesus is the only way.

The Mountains

2011-01-22T20:36:00.004-06:00

Sometimes we need a new perspective on the mountain before us. It seems an immovable obstacle too big to conquer. Tired, worn, and burned out, we retreat from the challenge. Perhaps to lick our wounds or regain strength. We live life in one of two directions. Either we're retreating from the challenge or we're forging ahead engaging the obstacles before us. When sizing up the challenger, remember the strength giver. Don't ever forget the one who hold your hand. For He is with you - in the valley, on the slope, or at the peak. Christ is with you.

Oceans Will Part

2011-01-14T19:11:00.003-06:00

I love these words; the music compelling. I'm convinced it's an earnest believer's prayer, "Lord, open my eyes to the works of your hands." The heart can easily becomes tepid and insensitive to His promoting and leading. I am hindered, even handicapped; prevented from seeing His work as I allow my heart to grow cold and dispassionate. Lord, open my eyes. Let me observe first hand your amazing work; I don't want to miss a thing. Let nothing, even the smallest of detail, escape the passionate heart's view. As I take notice, I will be overjoyed at the glimpse.

Lord, Your will be done in my life. I desire no other residence than your will and purpose fulfilled. In the neighborhood of your purpose, Lord I see you working - it's what I desire, long, and plead after. In my life, Your will be done, You be glorified. For I am satisfied with nothing less.

Now in its 4th Printing

2011-01-14T13:19:00.006-06:00

I found out earlier this week that our book, "Preventing Ministry Failure" is now in its forth printing. I am once again humbled by the continued use of this resource. It's pretty amazing that God would use an average pastor to be a part of something that's influencing a significant number of men and women for greater effectiveness and longevity in ministry. PMF is at its heart a call to both create and live a personalized self-care strategy for those in ministry. Ministry is truly not for the weak at heart! I often reflect upon those elements and strategies incorporate in the book. Not only is Preventing Ministry Failure utilized by ministry professionals, but it is utilized as a text book for several dozen colleges, universities, and seminaries. To the glory of God and His honor!

On Keeping Resolutions

2011-01-03T08:19:00.005-06:00

Happy New Years! Did you make any resolutions for 2011? Have you been able to keep them by this third day of January? F.M. Knowles said, “He who breaks a resolution is a weakling;  He who makes one is a fool.” Then there’s Oscar Wilde who said, “Good resolutions are simply checks that men draw on a bank where they have no account.” According to Knowles and Wilde, our potential success in New Year’s Resolutions sounds faltering. With that said, I want to offer a few thoughts about living out our resolutions well.

1. Choose Wisely

Instead of multi-tasking resolutions, choose one resolution. According to “Blame It on the Brain” by Jonah Lehrer, “Willpower, like a bicep, can only exert itself so long before it gives out; it's an extremely limited mental resource.” We have limited capacity to handle multiple resolutions successfully. Lehrer goes on to say, “Human routines are stubborn things, which helps explain why 88% of all resolutions end in failure, according to a 2007 survey of over 3,000 people conducted by the British psychologist Richard Wiseman. Bad habits are hard to break—and they're impossible to break if we try to break them all at once.” Choose one resolution to keep successfully this year.

2. Live Deliberately

Intentionally live out the new resolution. New routines are essential in breaking an old habit. Create boundaries to safeguard and promote your resolution. If you want different results, you have to change methods, processes, and behaviors. What will you do differently to support this new resolution?

3. Consecrate Formally

Make your resolution a faith exercise. Pray, read, study, and memorize Scripture to support, encourage, and empower during your quest for behavioral change. What does God say about this particular resolution in life? Share your resolution with another who will help to hold you accountable in the change. Have you committed your plan and desire for change to the Lord? Don’t just pray once, keep on praying until you’ve reached the destination. Make your resolution a spiritual exercise.

“Glory to God in highest heaven, Who unto man His Son hath given; While angels sing with tender mirth, A glad new year to all the earth.” ~Martin Luther

Santa was shot in Amarillo

2010-12-27T09:11:00.007-06:00

I view this clip with somewhat mixed thoughts. While I can both understand and don’t disagree with certain tenets claimed by Repent Amarillo, I’m somewhat taken back by the extreme nature of the violent demonstration. Personally, I think if you’re going to tackle the present day fascination with Santa Clause, it’s necessary to view the historical development of the Santa character. Where did the legend of a jolly old man in red originate? Remember that many cultural expressions develop out of previously significant and meaningful event or cause. Let’s not lose the opportunity to learn.

Most believe the modern day Santa can be traced back to a monk named Nicholas. You’ve probably heard of St. Nicholas before? This monk was known for his sacrificial charity and benevolence. Legend reveals his great work for the underdog – the children and the poor. Over the more recent generations (last couple of 100 years), the character morphed into a gift-giving giant complete with reindeer and sled. While the current day Santa is dissimilar to the legendary St. Nicholas, to completely dispose of Santa is to miss the opportunity to teach about charity, benevolence, and giving. Of which, these are in short supply. You can use the story of St. Nicholas as a wonderful object lesson in giving. I really don’t think you need to throw the baby out with the bathwater on this one. To do so is to miss an incredible teaching moment.

Here’s the catch, never should any legend of the season take precedence over the story of the first coming of Christ. For Christians, this is the main event. The coming of the Christ Child is the headliner – God’s Gift to Us. Perhaps it might be a sincere project for those of us who have received this gift to demonstrate our thankfulness through acts of charity, benevolence, and kindness to others less fortunate and in need. Of course, let’s not make these actions an annual event, but an every day lifestyle. But then we need to remember, Jesus probably wasn’t born on December 25 either, but that’s a story for another post!

Merry Christmas - The First Noel

2010-12-25T10:44:00.002-06:00

This is one of my favorite Christmas hymns. Little is known of its origin though The First Noel is thought to have started in France sometime during the 15th century. The song is said to have crossed to England just prior to 1823. The word Noel from its latin root of the original French word means “birthday.” When we sing of The First Noel, we sing of the first birthday – the coming of the Christ.

I like the music in this rendition though it’s only a couple of stanzas from the carol. I’ve copied the lyrics here. The most powerful stanza is the sixth (last).

The First Noel, the Angels did say
Was to certain poor shepherds in fields as they lay
In fields where they lay keeping their sheep
On a cold winter's night that was so deep.
Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel
Born is the King of Israel!

They looked up and saw a star
Shining in the East beyond them far
And to the earth it gave great light
And so it continued both day and night.
Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel
Born is the King of Israel!

And by the light of that same star
Three Wise men came from country far
To seek for a King was their intent
And to follow the star wherever it went.
Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel
Born is the King of Israel!

This star drew nigh to the northwest
O'er Bethlehem it took its rest
And there it did both Pause and stay
Right o'er the place where Jesus lay.
Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel
Born is the King of Israel!

Then entered in those Wise men three
Full reverently upon their knee
And offered there in His presence
Their gold and myrrh and frankincense.
Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel
Born is the King of Israel!

Then let us all with one accord
Sing praises to our heavenly Lord
That hath made Heaven and earth of nought
And with his blood mankind has bought.
Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel
Born is the King of Israel!

The New Has Come

2010-12-22T19:31:00.003-06:00

Desperation is an ominous motivator. When we’re desperate, we stop, take notice of our condition, reality sets in, and we cry out to the Living God. For Acts 4:12 states, “Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved." You will not find salvation in any other, but in Christ. There is no other name but at the name of Jesus that men must be saved. Being born again is about a second chance at life and eternity. It’s the point at which we start over – repentant, redeemed, and renewed. It is desperation embracing Hope, the gospel, and the truth. This video clip is a great reminder of the gift of new.

Surprising Fact: A Muslim Prayer Room in the Methodist Hospital Houston

2010-12-22T19:13:00.003-06:00

Here’s another example of our migrating religious culture witnessed firsthand. Yesterday, I went to visit members currently in one of the many hospitals at the Houston Medical Center. While on the first floor in the Methodist Hospital between the Fondren and Dunn elevators, I noticed a small sign posted on a door which read, “Muslim Prayer Room.” I meant to take a picture and unfortunately didn’t think about it even as I passed by the entrance to this prayer room a second time. Actually, I should have looked inside. But, what struck me about all this was a Muslim Prayer Room located inside a Methodist Hospital. Do you find that odd? In fact, it was located off a prominent thoroughfare – a high traffic corridor. Actually, I find it alarming.

How does a Christian organization (at least in name) with a statue of the healing Christ in the atrium locate a Muslim Prayer Room just around the corner? How can the Methodist Church allow a Muslim Prayer Room within its walls? Some may call it ecumenical? Others may call it politically correct? Even more may deem it as a practice in tolerance. I call it shameful. Christians ought to have a higher regard for their faith than to permit a false religion within its dwelling. The struggle is far too great! Why allow false god worshippers altar space within your courts? Here’s the problem. When you allow false god worship within the confines of a Christian organization, you’re setting a precedence which negates your ability to take a stand for truth. You legitimize a false following by placating space to their cause. With each step down this slippery slope of compromise, you open the door to greater depravity.

I wish the Methodist Hospital System would take notice of their roots. Scripture is very clear about the worship of other gods. “You shall have no other gods before Me,” says God. In other words, you shall have no other gods in front of Him, along side of Him, or behind Him. God alone occupies our sole adoration. Let us hold unswervingly to our faith. Do not allow false god worshippers to set up altars among the spaces claimed for Christ. Judgment comes upon those who falter and to those who do not take a stand. Israel learned the hard way by allowing the worshippers of pagan gods to set up shrines within her boundaries. We must not make the same mistake. When you compromise on faith, you set yourself up for destruction. Christ claiming organizations ought to practice better sense and demonstrate better judgment in my opinion. Let us be people who take a stand!

When Will Someone Say NO?!?

2010-12-14T18:10:00.004-06:00

I just read where the Boston Globe is reporting Senate Democrats just released a $1.3 trillion dollar spending bill. Included in the bill are an enormous number of earmark spending projects. The nearly two thousand pages combine multiple unfunded and under supported projects that did not see the light of day earlier this year. For example, embedded in this bill is an $8 million dollar contribution toward the Edward Kennedy Institute, which is being primarily funded through the private sector. Is this a national priority - a must spend budget item? If the Senator who proposed this expenditure wasn’t voted out in the last election, take down his or her name so you’ll remember to vote for the opposition next time they come up for re-election.

Has everyone in Washington lost his or her mind? Which part of broke don’t they get? Have they all gone mad? Why can’t someone simply say NO?!? Take their credit cards and printing presses away - Hurry, Hurry, Hurry, before it’s too late! Ignorance may be bliss, but stupidity is contagious in Washington. At this rate, I’m not sure we’ll be solvent in two years when the next election rolls around.

Why are our elected leaders bent on destroying this nation through financial ruin? We must quit spending and secure a reasonable and equitable revenue base for our nation. Government cannot meet all the wants of her constituency. She can not fund every dream or pay everyone's mortgage! Government will never be one’s savior; they’ll never have all the answers. At some point, personal responsibility must check in and rule the day. Church, you have a leading role intervening in society’s ills. Individual, you have a responsibility to volunteer, give, and support. People must quit looking for handouts and start looking for what they can contribute. And Washington must quit spending!

When Families Go Bad

2010-12-13T19:37:00.004-06:00

I’m sure you’ve heard the horrific news in the ever-continuing Madoff saga. Mark Madoff took his own life in the midst of relentless and mounting legal battles surrounding his family’s financial scandal. I can only imagine the soul-gripping anguish that pushed him down this path of personal demise. Suicide is such a dark path. Those of us living outside this story are clueless to the mental suffering and angst of the suicide victim. While I feel sorry for the many who lost life’s savings, I feel sorry for the family which must bear the continued embarrassment, shame, and ridicule of the Madoff name. Bernie Madoff will be remembered as one of the greatest swindlers and Ponzi scheme artists in American history. That’s the Madoff legacy. What a terrible reputation to outlive.

The Madoff family system regardless of its function or dysfunction ceased following Bernie Madoff’s arrest. Lines were drawn in the sand and personal allegiances were defined which would shape the “family” dynamic in the coming months. Communication was no more; suspicion and blame becoming common behaviors. What once was revered as a respectable family lost their luster in the midst of the accusations, convictions, and tabloid articles. The assaults were relentless. Life hit an all time low for Mark Madoff this past week. He found himself living a personal nightmare for which he saw no escape. In his personal torment, he took his own life - his only self-perceived escape route.

While I will never know the depth of Mark’s anguish, I do understand what it’s like to walk through dark days. I know personal brokenness all to well. During dark times, I’ve always returned to the 23rd Psalm. It is the portrayal of life’s seasons. As I meditate on David’s words, I’m reminded of the valley living season. As I walk through the valley with shaded death all around me, I will not fear. Even though enemies hide behind the shaded portals in the crag of the rock, the Lord is with me. I do not fear because of His presence. He is there protecting me and gently pulling me back onto the right path as I journey through the valley. No matter the depth of your story, the darkness of your tale, or the struggle in your journey, Christ never leaves you or forsakes you. He walks with you through the valley, mountain top, and pasture.

Suicide never has to be your only option. You are not alone. In Him you will find rest for the weariness, joy in the midst of disappointments, and strength for the journey. Life often looks different after a walk through the valley, don’t miss the opportunity for the grand new view and perspective.

Putting it into Perspective

2010-12-06T10:05:00.003-06:00

Sometimes when you listen to the hardships of others, it allows you the opportunity to put personal circumstances into perspective. How can my discomfort, inconvenience, or hurt even begin to compare to some of the stories of others. What was I thinking? How have I drawn the boundaries of my world so small? It’s then the guilt sets in enormous. How could I have ever been so self-centered as to doubt God in my situation when I observe the challenges of others? My light and momentary troubles are just that – minimal and temporary. That’s important to remember in this faith journey. My “stuff” is temporary, but in order to walk through the moment, I must take each step in thanksgiving. Maybe not for the circumstance per sea, but for the One who walks with me through it. He is definitely faithful. Maybe it’s time to quit griping and to start thanking. Now that’s a perspective changer!

How a President Thinks or Doesn't

2010-11-19T16:42:00.003-06:00

Some time ago, I published at least one post discussing post-modern leaders and their mindsets. Specifically, I remember a post that referenced the yet-to-be-elected Barack Obama as possibly our first post-modern thinking president, if he were to actually be elected. That probability became reality nearly two years ago.

A friend of mine sent me an article from Forbes Magazine. It is from the September 27, 2010 issue. I missed it for some reason, but glad that Doug didn’t. The article is by Dinesh D’Souza and titled, “How He Thinks: The Root of Obama’s Big Problem with Business.” I found the piece fascinating as D’Souza detailed the depth of Obama’s dream – the one his father had. The ardent anti-colonialist, Obama’s father greatly influenced his son’s thinking. According to the author, “Anti-colonialism is the doctrine that rich countries of the West got rich by invading, occupying and looting poor countries of Asia, Africa, and South America.” He goes on to state, “The anti-colonialist believes that since the rich have prospered at the expense of others, their wealth doesn’t really belong to them; therefore whatever can be extracted from them is automatically just.” D’Souza describes Obama as an anti-colonialist viewing America as the neocolonial power taking advantage of foreign lands and people. It’s as if our President see’s his dream as redistributing America’s wealth among the nations. Obama’s comments and actions post gulf oil spill, his support of coastal drilling off Brazil, and other unsound monetary policies support D’Souza’s conclusions. It’s a sober thought – a leader seeking to disassemble a nation rather than work to rebuild it.

Perhaps one of the most frightening comments noted in the article noted a statement made by NASA Chief Charles Bolden, “The primary mission of America’s space agency would be to improve relations with the Muslim world.” President Obama according to Bolden stated, “ He wanted me to find a way to reach out to the Muslim world and engage much more with dominantly Muslim nations to help them feel good about their historic contribution to science and math and engineering.” How incredulous is this directive? In recent speeches, Obama has overstated the importance of Islam’s influence on formative and current American culture almost as if he’s attempting to become a neo-historian and re-write American history. This is not the first, nor will it be the last where Obama overemphasizes or embellishes Islam’s contributions to America. Where are the church-state separatists calling “foul” on this one? Not a one is to be heard, because their message isn’t one of separation of church and state, it’s simply a disguised and cloaked anti-Christian sentiment.

Here’s a link of the Forbes article for you to read for yourself. It’s enlightening and a must read. More than even Christians must act, pray, and respond. American Christians can no longer afford to be apathetic toward or removed from the national political arena – it is ours to engage. Don’t be quite anymore. Your children’s future is at stake.

THE LITTLE gods

2010-11-17T08:57:00.003-06:00

I’ve been contemplating Jesus’ response to the Rich Young Ruler. He arrives questioning Jesus about eternal life, as he’s puzzled about the entrance requirements. Jesus discloses a list of observations that require adherence. The young man has kept all the commands Jesus specified. He asks Jesus, “Is there something else I must do?” Jesus tells him to sell everything he owned, give the proceeds to the poor, and then to follow Him. The man exits sadly because of his many possessions.

One thing I’ve learned over the years in this faith journey is that followship requires Lordship. It doesn’t do any good to observe rules and yet give your heart and life to something other than the one you profess. Jesus doesn’t want you holding onto “little gods” missing the freedom of the Father’s embrace. This account in scripture wasn’t about money, but about the smaller gods we so easily erect and follow in life. Often we think these “little gods” help foster independence and self-reliance. Unfortunately, these “little gods” do just the opposite by further enslaving us to maintain them. Is there something hindering you from following Jesus today? What are the little gods to which you bow down? Are there attitudes, actions, people, or stuff you’re holding on to that’s hindering your followship of Christ? Are you tired of serving the “little gods” yet?

Jesus desires to give you freedom – complete freedom. Saying, “yes” to Jesus and leaving behind all that entangles only opens the gate to the pasture of absolute freedom. Freedom in Christ is nothing like the freedom you’re attempting to create for yourself. You don’t put on shackles when you come to Jesus; He removes the shackles you’ve unknowingly placed on yourself due to captivity’s ignorance.

I’m convinced we can never truly follow Christ without letting loose of all that entangles. Jesus told the rich young ruler to give it all away and then come and follow Him. True freedom in Christ is lived when we let go and follow Him. Do you desire real freedom? Then let go of the crutches you’re leaning upon trying to create your own freedom, which is really nothing more than a self-made prison. You were created for freedom – God has called you to be free! Be free!

"You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love." Galatians 5:13 (NIV)

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)

A Chilling Thought - "The Chinese Professor"

2010-11-14T20:16:00.003-06:00

The Chinese Professor is a chilling proposal. America is teetering on the brink of financial disaster. “We” as a nation can no longer afford (actually could never afford) to continue the adverse cycle of spending more than the tax base generates. The continued tax and spend philosophy isn’t prudent. At some point, you can no longer raise sufficient tax revenue to pay your obligations. Washington still proposes unbalanced budgeting. Their so-called present day solution is to spend even more money to spur the economy. According to the Washington Post about one-third of the budget is deemed “discretionary.” The other two-thirds is considered “mandatory.” Congress establishes discretionary spending annually. Mandatory spending is obligated funding to entitlement programs. According to the same article, net-interest paid will double in the next five years at current spending. This is astounding. We have elected men to protect the freedoms of this great nation, yet we’re witnessing gross misappropriation of funds and unsustainable spending. It's time to balance the budget! It's time to send Washington a message - an urgent message!

On Honoring our Veterans

2010-11-11T17:59:00.003-06:00

When I consider Veterans Day, these are some of the soldiers I think about. Men and women who serve valiantly in harms way to protect the freedoms enjoyed by people like us. I've never served in the military, but I have a great appreciation and respect for those who do. I'm thankful to live in this great nation. I'm proud of the young men (and women) like marine Crops Cpl. Todd Nicely. These are the ones we honor today on Veterans Day.

The Next Target

2010-11-10T12:43:00.005-06:00

Bernard Lewis states, “We are engaged in a struggle…” How profound yet simple is that answer. "America is the next target," he goes on to say. Lewis is a highly regarded western expert in Islam having served as a professor at Princeton University with his specialty being Islamic history. Many have sought his opinion and advice including American Presidents. He makes some interesting points regarding Islamic immigration in this short clip. The wisdom for this battle is found in understanding the historical processes, strategies, and movements of Islam. Let history teach us to be wise about our future.

When will Christians Understand the Islamic Threat?

2010-11-03T10:32:00.004-05:00

At 47, I’ve been observing the world’s religious stage for a very long time. There are some who behave badly in the name of their god. This could be said for many religious followers including Christians. But, there’s something I can’t ignore that’s happening around the globe. It’s the continued growth of Islam among nations like America. Much of the increase happens under the radar for most citizens, but the rate is significant. While the growth is alarming, Islamic beliefs are most disconcerting.

Americans and specifically Christian Americans are ignorant regarding the beliefs and methods of Islam. We want to believe its peaceful, yet global actions reflect otherwise. In migration, its perception is peaceful only to disguise the truth that lies underneath. Take Europe for example. Look at countries like Denmark, England, and France. It will not be long before an Islamic majority occupies Denmark. Already cultural clashes are evident. In both London and Paris you’ll find communities ruled by Islamic law superseding government rule. These nations, states, and municipalities are just now waking up to the battle and unfortunately it’s probably too late.

For the western mindset, it’s hard for us to understand. We don’t think the same. Our values are diametrically opposed. Peace opens the door and invites a hidden evil inside. No matter what “peaceful” voice you find, America and Christians in particular are the infidels. You and I deserve death according to their sacred works and doctrine. At all costs, Islam seeks to dominate the global landscape. It arrives as a sheep in wolves clothing. We want to respect and tolerate the beliefs of others, but when the sheep bites it’s a different story and often too late. I am not narrow minded, just educated. Study the history and pay attention to the current events. Tell the Catholic Christians in Baghdad that Islam is peaceful after dozens were slaughter last Sunday in church. Tell the Christians residing in Middle East communities that are being forced to leave their homes and business due to Islamic oppression and aggression that it’s a peaceful religion. While Islamic fundamentalism leads the march and gets much of the press, the quiet and sleeping giant grows in your neighborhood, schools, offices, and plants.

The question becomes, “How will Christians respond?” Do we continue in apathy, or do we wait for the obvious aggression? The church must pray, practice, promote, and proselytize. This is as much a spiritual battle as it is a physical battle. Prayer is required. Christians must practice being the hands and feet of Jesus. We must promote the Gospel by not only living the story but telling the story too. Christians must strategically learn to engage a Muslim with the truth. We must be aggressive in our proselytizing before it's too late.

Shame on NPR!

2010-10-22T08:26:00.003-05:00

Let me be one of many to say shame on National Public Radio! The action to sever their relationship with Juan Williams is once again a validation of a skewed bias demonstrated by many of our news services in America. Watch the clip as Williams recounts the events that led to the demise of his relationship with NPR. Where is the argument for free speech? Do all commentators tote a company line as they reflect upon life and current events? Is there a gag order in effect for Islam? Is there no authenticity or honor in the news business? Is our news filtered by corporate bias? Williams merely stated what many of us think when we travel American airports. If you’re honest, you’ve thought it too.

Here’s the reality of the situation. Hypothetically, had Williams made the “suspect” remark regarding Christians, priests, or clergy in general, the comments would have gone untested. Under freedom of speech, it’s alright to attack, mock, and abuse those who adhere to the Christian faith. It happens with ever increasing frequency. The slant, bias, and innuendo proliferates the airwaves and print media negatively depicting and impacting Christians. Yet, when it comes to Islam, we filter reporting with a politically correct bias. Don’t say, print, or give way to any negative discussion about Islamist. We ought to learn from history, it’s the same mistake Europe made. Its previous politically right bias behaviors are coming to roost and haunt. The European fallout is historical fact not just blogger jargon.

Somewhere along the way someone chose political correctness over describing reality. If we’re ever going to be honest with ourselves and the enormous challenges we face, we must openly discuss them without fear of retribution, attack, or debase behaviors. History need not repeat itself if we’ll wise up to the tactics.

We Can't All Sing "Kumbaya" With Everyone!

2010-10-18T08:17:00.003-05:00

I'm following a developing story about an incarcerated pastor in Iran. Pastor Youcef Nadarkhani was arrested due to his faith and on trial for a “thought crime.” While Iran denies any detention due to “thought crimes” the evidence of an imprisoned Christian pastor proves otherwise. Mission Network News still reports no sentencing at this time while other news sources report both the release of Nadarkhani’s wife and his sentence of death. Cases similar to this against Christian pastors and believes are not unique in Islamic controlled regions. We must pray for Youcef Nadarkhani, his wife, children, and church.

This brings up an entirely different question for me. Is religious freedom or freedom from religion possible in regions dominated by Islamic law? It’s not possible to live free in Islamic dominated regions especially as a practicing Christian. If you’re a student of history and current events, the facts speak for themselves. Regions under strict Muslim rule or Sharia law do not tolerate the practice of “other” religions. This is also observed in areas experiencing significant immigration of Islamic faithful. There are communities both in London and Paris which denounce governmental authority and rule by Sharia law according to While Europe Slept, by Bruce Bawer.

As Americans, we must safeguard the right to practice the Christian faith in this country. To be absolutely forthright, I’m not sure what that looks like. I do know there is substantial identifiable evidence that in my life time I will observe several European nations succumb to the negative political advancement and control of Islamists. It is predicted that Denmark will likely be populated by an Islamic citizenry majority within the next twenty years. This has the potential to turn the course of a nation. Domination is the goal of extremist and fundamental Islamists. Muslims that are “less” extreme seem to be powerless against the growing tide of Islamic fundamentalism. It is evidenced that we all can't just live together and sing "Kumbaya." We must give careful thought to such potentiality.

A Story of Perseverance and Hope

2010-10-13T10:25:00.003-05:00

Have you been watching the continuous footage on the Chilean miners' rescue? For over two months the miners have struggled; prisoners of a personal tragedy. With the rescue of each miner, the reason for celebration grows. Can you image being trapped underground for any length of time? Think about conditions, complications, and challenges that engulfed them. They were buried alive and unable to rescue themselves. Hope must have waned, don’t you think? Doubt in the prospect of an imminent rescue is understandable, if not obvious. According to experts, an actual extraction was nearly an impossible feat.

As I watch the rescue, I’m reminded of two necessary attitudinal attributes essential for living well regardless of life’s season. Every person needs both hope and perseverance. Hope in Christ and hope in a future resolve. Where is your hope? Do you have hope? Where has your hope been placed? I’m not asking you to promote false hope, but a living hope. I’m referring to a hope which supersedes the obvious because you trust the One that is not confined to typical results. Hebrews 6:19a states, “We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.” (NIV) Our ultimate hope is in Christ. We also live with a hope (vision or dream) of the heart which drives our ambition (His will for our life).

Perseverance is the second attribute demonstrated in this story. There is both the perseverance of the miners and those above ground working around the clock to facilitate the rescue. Even when the odds looked less favorable neither these men nor their rescuers gave up. Perseverance is becoming less and less apparent in our society. We give up too easily. You don’t like this or that, something is perceived as too hard, or maybe it’ll take too long to complete and so you give up. It has been said, “Anything worth having is worth working for.” Apparently we struggle with identifying what’s worth having and consequently we neglect the tenacity to work for what is worth having. James 1:14 says, “Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking in anything.” (NIV)

I rejoice with these miners and their families. You are realizing a hope you’ve held for two months. I celebrate with the rescuers. You didn’t give up and persevered. Today we smile at the demonstration of hope and perseverance.

The No-Tardy Rule

2010-10-06T07:47:00.002-05:00

The Wall Street Journal ran a Life and Culture piece titled, “Sick of this Text: ‘Sorry I’m Late.’” The premise of the article relates to tardiness and the use of mobile devices to excuse the behavior. The article recounted numerous scenarios of habitual tardiness and its consequences. At the heart of the message is the belief that as long as we communicate tardiness is acceptable. Personally, just because you communicate tardiness doesn’t excuse the behavior. There’s little to no excuse for tardiness. Accidents and emergencies happen, but tardiness shouldn’t be our norm.

I wish I could communicate that I’m on-time all the time, but that’s not the case. But, I’m personally convinced of the need to practice better stewardship of time. I’ve embedded a short how-to clip with practical pointers for punctuality.

Why is it so important to practice punctuality? Here are just a few reasons:

Being on time communicates value. Your punctuality demonstrates your value for the individual, task, or meeting.
Being on time demonstrates good stewardship. On time behavior demonstrates a diligence in planning and calendar mastery.
Being on time communicates thoughtfulness. Your punctuality communicates your attitude towards the individual.
Being on time communicates order. On time behavior says you’re able to handle your schedule well and that life has its order and priority.

Here’s to punctuality. Gotta run, got a meeting to attend. :)

The Power of the Lie

2010-10-04T20:54:00.006-05:00

We live in the wake of consequence. Every disobedient action reaps an inescapable consequence. Dodging is futile, there’s no getting out of it. We question and doubt absolute truth (it really does exist). We fascinate ourselves with the dark; mesmerized by an illicit prize. Did God really say that? Is that principle really true for today? Doesn’t it appear outdated and old fashioned? It is in the questioning of truth that we doubt the validity of a lie. We exchange truth for falsehood. Why? Surely it will be okay – this time – this once. Have you ever wondered that if it wasn’t okay way back when, why in the world would it be okay now? Truth does not change and neither does the consequence of sin. It is swift always apprehending its prisoner. Listen to truth, ponder its application, and seek righteousness. Don’t listen to the whispers or reasoning of the lie; it seeks only to destroy you. Don’t entertain the darkness, walk in the light.

Taking the Show on the Road

2010-10-04T19:01:00.006-05:00

According to Fox News in Tampa, Terry Jones takes his message on the road to the Tampa Convention Center this weekend. You'll remember Terry Jones, the Gainesville Pastor who sponsored the National Burn a Quran Day to coincide with the 9/11 Anniversary this year. He made national news sparking debate among both Christians and non-Christians alike just weeks ago.

Tampa is the first stop on a multi-city tour. Jones will take his message in coming weeks to Nashville, Kentucky, New York, New Jersey, and California. The rally begins Sunday night at 7:00 p.m. and he's hired four off duty law enforcement officials for security. The Tampa Tribune reports numerous complaints to the local tourism office regarding Jones' rally.

When asked to preview the upcoming meeting, Jones stated, "The rally is about calling on Americans to stand up, to exercise their rights to free speech. It's calling on the churches and church members and non-churched people to stand up for issues they feel are important here in America." It appears the message has broadened in order to incorporate more than just his concerns regarding Islam.

Jones made an interesting comment during his Fox interview. He stated that people are concerned about the issues, but "being concerned won't get the job done." Now, he's right about that. Just listen to talk radio, read the bloggers lamenting social ills, catch the evening news, or converse with neighbors - everyone has a conern, but few are willing to do anything about it. There are lots of complainers, just fewer workers. You gotta hand it to Jones, you may not agree with his message or tactics, but he's putting action to his words.